Is it true that the more you hate, the more you love?

By Erly Maglangit

@cacay1 (85530)

Cagayan De Oro, Philippines

July 25, 2025 9:59pm CST

There is a song entitled " The More You Hate, the More You Love." It is a very lovely song, and my mind keeps asking if it is true in real life. I have not experienced loving someone I hate. I loved someone, and he betrayed me, and my love for him was replaced with hate because of the pain and insult that it caused me. Perhaps there is another explanation for this in an imperative and emphatic way. I am waiting for your share of love experience.

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4 responses

@RebeccasFarm (95494)

• Arvada, Colorado

27 Jul

I do not understand loving someone that you hate.

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@cacay1 (85530)

• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines

31 Jul

@RebeccasFarm , I experienced it, I loved someone, but he cheated me, and the love was replaced with rage of hate, irreparable.

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@RebeccasFarm (95494)

• Arvada, Colorado

31 Jul

@cacay1 Yes I understand the rage and hatred.

@Letranknight2015 (52423)

• Philippines

30 Jul

They co exist with each other. Specially if it's a one sided love, it can get the person deep into the dark.

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@cacay1 (85530)

• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines

31 Jul

@Letranknight2015

perhaps the more you hate because you are busted, but the lore you love it for sooner or later, the heart of the person will be softened he he.

@youless (113624)

• Guangzhou, China

26 Jul

I don't think so. Perhaps you will have the hatred feeling for some time, but won't be forever. I still think the feeling shall be full of sadness.

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@cacay1 (85530)

• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines

26 Jul

, it is true, and it is also impossible to love someone we hate to the bones because of betrayal. Betrayal is one cause of murdering a lover.

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@emelas (210)

• Maputo, Mozambique

31 Jul

Loving is very good, be happy but take it easy because disappointment hurts so much