Don’t beg for love for someone who can't give it, look around
@cacay1 (85519)
Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
July 25, 2025 10:00pm CST
It is not good to beg for love for someone who cannot give it to you; look around and find someone better. Some boys continue courting a girl despite a , No response. What you will get is hurt and pain. There are people like that, and I cannot blame them, for all of us have experienced how love is felt.
It is not good to beg for love; it is better to divert the feelings to other things, like making friends and bonding with friends. It is better to have many friends than to have someone to dominate us. Just look around, and there you will find someone who connects her feelings to yours.
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@cabuyogty (4091)
• Philippines
26 Jul
Yes , I believe in what you have said in this discussions. Right now , I like to do mylot , Facebook messenger in my NGOs where I belong, find chatmates online and watch my favorite YouTube videos.
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@cacay1 (85519)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
27 Jul
@cabuyogty, that's good to hear from you that you love watching your favorite videos. I'm doing the same.
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@cacay1 (85519)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
28 Jul
@cabuyogty 
wow that's awesome.
wow that's awesome.1 person likes this
@cabuyogty (4091)
• Philippines
27 Jul
@cacay1 yes , I like to do that watching videos always
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@rsa101 (39547)
• Philippines
28 Jul
Very true. As men, we often find ourselves being the ones who pursue and sometimes even beg for love—but only up to a point. There’s a fine line between persistence and losing self-respect. If she’s not responding, it’s wiser to take a step back. There's no shame in wanting love, but it should be mutual. And sometimes, the right one shows up when we least expect it—often when we’ve stopped chasing and started living.
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@rsa101 (39547)
• Philippines
29 Jul
@cacay1As long as his persistence remains within the boundaries of trying to genuinely convince a girl to love him, without resorting to coercion or force, it can be seen as understandable. It is important that his actions stay within the acceptable limits of respectfully pursuing a girl.
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@Letranknight2015 (52423)
• Philippines
28 Jul
There are still people like that till now? It's a learning experience that I hope they will heal in time.
But then it's best to learn how to love yourself first.
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@cacay1 (85519)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
28 Jul
@Letranknight2015, yes true. As much as possible love the self first. We need to be kind to ourselves. Time is a great healer too.
@Deepizzaguy (112585)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
30 Jul
You have a good point there that we should not be looking for love in the wrong places.
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@cacay1 (85519)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
31 Jul
@Deepizzaguy, yes, it will be unfair and degrading to love a wrong person.
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@cacay1 (85519)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
27 Jul
@brokenbee yes, it's best to wait for the right time and right person.
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@cacay1 (85519)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
28 Jul
@brokenbee right time, right love for the right person so priceless .
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@yanzalong (19074)
• Indonesia
27 Jul
I agree with you. I try to make as many friends as possible. Unreturned love is pain. Do you agree?
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@cacay1 (85519)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
27 Jul
@yanzalong, yes 100 %, I agree. It's so painful and the feeling is like being slap with insult.
