why do some relationships dont last for more than 3 months? / myLot

July 28, 2025 2:04am CST

They say bad things happen to good people and one of such cases is relationship. Sometimes, people with good intentions have issues with their relationships within a very short period. One wonders why this happens

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rsa101

@rsa101 (39585)

• Philippines

28 Jul

That’s a thought that hits deep. It really does seem unfair when kind-hearted people go through heartbreak. Maybe it's because they love with everything they have, often overlooking red flags or giving more than they receive. Sometimes, it’s just timing or circumstances beyond control. But even those short-lived relationships can teach resilience and self-worth.

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Emmanuel Adelakun

@ogbenishyna44 (692)

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28 Jul

You just hit it right- they love with everything and then got taken advantaged of.

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rsa101

@rsa101 (39585)

• Philippines

28 Jul

@ogbenishyna44 But that is not a valid reason to give up on love. It might be best for him to first take time to heal and rest his heart, allowing himself to learn self-love before attempting to pursue it again. With his heart renewed and lessons learned from the past, he will likely have a clearer understanding of what to do and when to do it, approaching love with greater wisdom and readiness.

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Rashna Gandhi

@Rashnag (30597)

• Surat, India

28 Jul

I think it could be due to some misunderstanding. Also people's tolerance power has decreased and too much distractions too. Destiny too plays a role.

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Emmanuel Adelakun

@ogbenishyna44 (692)

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29 Jul

i NOTICED PEOPLE'S TOLERANCE LVELS HAVE DECREASED, THATS TRUE.