Life Update

By @n.J
August 28, 2025 10:06pm CST
I recall sharing that my mom and I often clash. Our relationship was toxic. Until my cousin died of cancer a month ago. She has totally changed. Perhaps, she came to realize how fragile life is. I have been suffering from hormonal imbalance since in my twenties. I was diagnosed with adenomyomis with endometriosis and ovarian cyst. On top of that, I have a retroverted uterus. I have undergone three surgeries. First was breast fibrodenoma. Second, was cesarean - when I gave birth to my daughter. Third, laparoscopy and laparotomy for removal of ovarian cyst. My nodules recurred, but thanks heavens, they are benign. I am currently off Visanne-my hormone replacement pill. But I had been on it for 9 years before I ceased using it. My cousin succumbed to stage 4 ovarian cancer. We were all taken by surprise as she kept it a secret until her last breath. I only found out about it two days after her passing. Her younger sister informed me. I was the first relative to know about it. I believe her passing was a wake-up call to my mom. Since my cousin's death, she has always been careful with how she treats me.
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• Philippines
29 Aug
There is always good and bad that take place for us to start doing things differently. I am sorry for your loss. I hope you always take good care of yourself.
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29 Aug
You, too. Take care of yourself. How are you?
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@jstory07 (146081)
• Roseburg, Oregon
29 Aug
Sorry for your loss. I hope you become good friends with your Mom.
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29 Aug
I have always been praying for it.
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@wolfgirl569 (123549)
• Marion, Ohio
29 Aug
Hope you can have a better relationship now
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