Is it worth it?

@Dreamerby (8990)
Calcutta, India
August 29, 2025 10:46am CST
Sometimes you do so many things for a person, love him/her so much that you make him your world only to realize that you will always be his/her second priority (or maybe third or fourth...who knows). He/she doesn't have the courage to fight for you and go against people for you. He/she lacks in efforts. And you wonder whether you made the wrong choice. Is it worth it? Was it worth your time and emotion? There are people who travel miles to meet their loved ones. And then there are people who are too busy to meet even though they live next-door. It is strange. You cannot dwell in the past. You have to make the right choices for the future. Even if they are hard and difficult. Even if it shatters you temporarily. Ask yourself- Can you live with that person? Do you see yourself building a home with him/her? If so, what kind of a home will it be? Does he/she love you enough to overlook all the negativity of life?
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@LindaOHio (199219)
• United States
1h
In spite of my husband's betrayals, I would marry him again. I miss him terribly and feel that half of me is gone.
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@Dreamerby (8990)
• Calcutta, India
1h
Really? Ok I get your point. You can always love someone even though they did some not-so-good things to you.
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@AmbiePam (102136)
• United States
Just now
I think you see the situation very well. That’s very difficult to deal with.