This is Frustrating
By Muobo Isivwe
@Paigegirl32 (21)
Lagos, Nigeria
September 7, 2025 10:28am CST
I am Nigerian and know just how frustrating it can be to be one.
The majority of Nigerians are good people struggling to make a decent living. However, the few scammers have tainted the Nigerian name and made it difficult for the world to trust us.
I know how many opportunities I have lost as a result of being Nigerian.
One time, I got a writing gig that paid a lot and was to become regular. However, the employer cancelled the deal and blocked me as soon as she got to know my nationality.
I can't say if anything has ever hurt more than that;paying for a sin that isn't yours.
Now, I try to be good every chance I get and hope the few honest Nigerians online will change the tainted perception of Nigerians over time.
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5 responses
@RebeccasFarm (90717)
• Arvada, Colorado
8 Sep
Yes a few bad apples ruin it for the good people ..I know what you mean.
Even here, myLot wont pay Nigeria..that sucks. Something about Paypal.
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@Paigegirl32 (21)
• Lagos, Nigeria
9 Sep
Yea, true. A lot of Nigerians miss out on good-paying sites because the whole country has been locked out.
I hope this changes soon.
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@Paigegirl32 (21)
• Lagos, Nigeria
7 Sep
Yea, it does. It closes the door to opportunities. I can't count the number of times this has happened.
Only very few people are willing to give the benefit of the doubt and take a chance. I hope this changes soon.
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@luisadannointed (9454)
• Philippines
18 Sep
I think this is not only for nigerians, don't take it to your heart, sometimes it is nnot about your nationality, but it is all about the people you are dealing with who are racist, anyway, I am glad you fond a new job with a good boss and high salary. God bless.
@madtitanoboas (23)
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7 Sep
Some of us may need to immediately change our societal attitudes toward Nigerians.
I think only a handful of individuals are causing the "problem." I believe that Nigerians are generally kind and hospitable to others.
I hope you can be a pioneer of goodness for your nation in the eyes of the world.
And I hope you soon find a good job in the future. I hope no one else is judged for the mistakes of a few.
@robshine98 (7)
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7 Sep
Only think I Can tell you that always be positive and trust yorself is the important think to build best of yourself...otherwise don't care about others
