This is Frustrating
By Muobo Isivwe
@Paigegirl32 (16)
Lagos, Nigeria
September 7, 2025 10:28am CST
I am Nigerian and know just how frustrating it can be to be one.
The majority of Nigerians are good people struggling to make a decent living. However, the few scammers have tainted the Nigerian name and made it difficult for the world to trust us.
I know how many opportunities I have lost as a result of being Nigerian.
One time, I got a writing gig that paid a lot and was to become regular. However, the employer cancelled the deal and blocked me as soon as she got to know my nationality.
I can't say if anything has ever hurt more than that;paying for a sin that isn't yours.
Now, I try to be good every chance I get and hope the few honest Nigerians online will change the tainted perception of Nigerians over time.
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4 responses
@Paigegirl32 (16)
• Lagos, Nigeria
7 Sep
Yea, it does. It closes the door to opportunities. I can't count the number of times this has happened.
Only very few people are willing to give the benefit of the doubt and take a chance. I hope this changes soon.
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@RebeccasFarm (95889)
• Arvada, Colorado
8 Sep
Yes a few bad apples ruin it for the good people ..I know what you mean.
Even here, myLot wont pay Nigeria..that sucks. Something about Paypal.
@madtitanoboas (22)
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7 Sep
Some of us may need to immediately change our societal attitudes toward Nigerians.
I think only a handful of individuals are causing the "problem." I believe that Nigerians are generally kind and hospitable to others.
I hope you can be a pioneer of goodness for your nation in the eyes of the world.
And I hope you soon find a good job in the future. I hope no one else is judged for the mistakes of a few.
@robshine98 (7)
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7 Sep
Only think I Can tell you that always be positive and trust yorself is the important think to build best of yourself...otherwise don't care about others
