If you blame other people, they blame you!
By HimArticles
@HimArticles (1137)
India
December 3, 2006 1:30am CST
Criticism is the fastest way to create resentment and destroy a relationship. Our egos are so fragile that strong disapproval hits us like a sledge-hammer. The movement we are criticised, we justify, we blame, we shout. If you want to preserve relationship and get results from people, you must be sensitive to their egos. Please discuss.
3 responses
@snowflake5 (1579)
• United States
16 Jan 07
Yes I agree. One must never put down the ones we love, or we destroy them.
But there are lots of ways to pass on some gentle criticism without hurting the other party. Always do it with a smile and with a light joke, and never with anger. Anger always amplifies a problem and makes it worse, especially for the person on the receiving end of the anger. Always wait till you've calmed down (wait at least a day) before you make your points.
@tw99384 (259)
• Jodhpur, India
16 Jan 07
The world would be a boring place if there were no criticism around. Everyone would be a goody- goody person.
@Perry2007 (2229)
• Philippines
14 Jan 07
There are what we term as constructive critics, there is an international club where it is a part of their practice to give constructive criticism on the performance of a member to be able to help the one being criticised in identifying his mistake and improve on them. Sometimes we need critics to improve on a lot of things. I give you permission to criticise my discussions, I would not recent you nor destroy my friendship with you.
