Do you collect things from strangers?

March 21, 2026 8:55am CST
Do you collect things from strangers? Yesterday, a man newly moved into one of the flat downstairs, I went to greet him as a neighbor. Today early in the morning he came to my house and gave me his food he made in his house. I refuse to take the gift. I did not take it because I don't know him. He was angry and left. Do you think I should have received the gift? Do you collect things from strangers
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@AmbiePam (118733)
• United States
21 Mar
Yes, I definitely think you should have taken it. He just wanted to start off on the right foot. I’m not saying you had to eat it. You could have thrown it away once you took it. That may seem wasteful, but your neighbor would not be upset right now. My neighbor has done the same thing.
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@AmbiePam (118733)
• United States
21 Mar
@augusta123 No, not at all. His feelings are more important than a little bit of waste.
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21 Mar
@AmbiePam well if you say so maybe next time I would accept to make the person happy right?
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21 Mar
Will throwing it away not gives one the guilty vibe?
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@Traceyjayne (10544)
• United Kingdom
21 Mar
I think the neighbour was new, and just trying to be friendly and introduce himself to you. I think I would have accepted the gift of food ….even if I knew I would not eat it as I didn’t know him, or how or where it had been prepared. He would not know you hadn’t eaten it and I’m sure you would have been friends. He was trying to be a good neighbour and friend and was offended when you turned his food away.
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@Traceyjayne (10544)
• United Kingdom
21 Mar
@augusta123 it’s one way of getting to know him though isn’t it ! You could have taken the food …you didn’t have to eat it ……he wasn’t going to make a habit of it , it was just to introduce himself to you.
21 Mar
Yeah the problem is i don't know him
21 Mar
Well, I can't take the food even if he was trying to make friends with me. He would have just probably maybe ask, than I may say oh I have already has something, than giving me something I wasn't prepared for.
22 Mar
So you are a young lady And this was a guy you don't know, apart from one greeting And you answered your door to him That could be dangerous. As for the gift, you were right to refuse it.
22 Mar
Yeah I think I made the right choice. Accepting things from strangers is really dangerous because you really can't trust anyone.
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22 Mar
@augusta123 Especially if you are alone somewhere How old are you?
@Jehanne (1374)
21 Mar
Well it's a new neighbor, accepting food from them is a way of being courteous and respectful as for me because it has been practice in our culture to build a sense of community.
21 Mar
This neighbor is someone that came the previous day. As for me I won't collect things from people I don't know and don't trust but that guy look like a tout.
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@Jehanne (1374)
21 Mar
@augusta123 I now I understand were your worries from, but also know that you have approach him first by greeting him. Who knows he just returned the favor in a way of sharing food.
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21 Mar
@Jehanne you are right. My bad
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• Abuja, Nigeria
21 Mar
I really think you should have collected it ,i mean if u won't eat it throw it away or do away with it,and now he might be thinking him coming might be bringing the negative vibes.
21 Mar
It won't bring a negative vibes, if only he would want to talk to me.
• Abuja, Nigeria
21 Mar
@augusta123 okay i see, its okay then,anyway you might have to apologize