Brother on the phone.

@xFiacre (14650)
Ireland
April 24, 2026 12:35pm CST
I spoke with my French brother today, the one I intend visiting in May. Phone conversations are not easy partly because of his slurred speech thanks to Parkinson’s, and partly because of difficulty holding the phone - again thanks to Parkinson’s. But he was bright and breezy as always in spite of his circumstances. He’s in a care home even though only 65 years old, and his fellow inmates are much older and have all lost their marbles. I had thought the visit was going to be difficult, since he has deteriorated since I saw him a year ago, but he seems to still be able to manage visitors alright. He’s confined to a wheelchair but the house we are staying in is about 200 metres from the care home so I hope I’ll be able to wheel him over to our place - he never gets out. It’s a visit I wasn’t looking forward to, but after the phone call I know I’ll enjoy it.
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@LindaOHio (220108)
• United States
27 Apr
Your brother will really appreciate the visit...
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@Traceyjayne (10445)
• United Kingdom
24 Apr
I’m sure parts of the visit will be hard but it will be an important visit to make .
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@AmbiePam (118506)
• United States
24 Apr
Oh, I am so glad you are going to be able to get him out of the home, at least for a little while. It’s going to mean so much to him to see loved ones and to get to talk to rational human beings.
@xFiacre (14650)
• Ireland
24 Apr
@AmbiePam Me rational? Oh dear!
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@anya12adwi (10284)
• India
24 Apr
Wishing you to create a lot of lasting memories with your French brother.
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24 Apr
It's really sad that he never gets out. Could no ody in the care phone fix him up with a phone stand to help him out whilst he is talking to you, Maybe earphones with a mic as well
@xFiacre (14650)
• Ireland
24 Apr
@ineeddentures No such thing as a good care home of course, just one that’s not as bad as others. It’s the slurred speech that’s the worst, and his unique merging of French and English.
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24 Apr
@xFiacre My great uncle had Parkinson's My grandfather would take him to the football every home game at Links Park Montrose My great uncle insisted on singing the songs It was the 70,s Empathy from other supporters in the Stand was scarce. I used to giggle.
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