Have I Gone Selfish

@Shivram59 (49312)
India
April 28, 2026 12:23pm CST
You know I love extremes when it comes to weather. This year the summer is very very hot , and it gives me the opportunity to relive my school days I love to relive them. But there are many people, perhaps everyone except me, who don't like extremes. I see them harrassed and irritated. But I like very hot, very cold and very rainy days, and I can't do anything about it Sometimes I feel guilty. I feel I'm selfish, as I like and enjoy what others hate. Am I selfish??
7 people like this
7 responses
@rakski (152889)
• Philippines
30 Apr
we have our own likes and dislikes
1 person likes this
@rakski (152889)
• Philippines
1 May
@Shivram59 I agree.
1 person likes this
@Shivram59 (49312)
• India
30 Apr
Thank you. You are right. We all have our respective choices and having them doesn't make us selfish.
1 person likes this
@Shivram59 (49312)
• India
1 May
@rakski You are always most welcome
1 person likes this
@sarik1 (7790)
29 Apr
Today Morning early weather is good and rainy day , you are selfish. Enjoy your life.
1 person likes this
@sarik1 (7790)
29 Apr
@Shivram59 ok take care of yourself.
1 person likes this
@Shivram59 (49312)
• India
29 Apr
@sarik1 I'm careful, my friend. Going to watch news of west Bengal elections on tv.
1 person likes this
@Shivram59 (49312)
• India
29 Apr
Thank you. Our whole state is burning. The government has issued heat alert. The sun is raining fire. Enjoy a cool, rainy weather therem
1 person likes this
@AmbiePam (118549)
• United States
28 Apr
Since weather is something one cannot change, I do not think you are being selfish, but just enjoying what life gives you. The very hot weather here in Oklahoma during the summer makes me sick, but over in Ohio two of my Mylot friends absolutely love it. They aren’t selfish for enjoying something I hate; they are simply content with their circumstances. And, I think that is an admirable trait to have.
1 person likes this
@Shivram59 (49312)
• India
28 Apr
Thank you. That's exactly what I think I don't like others to suffer from extreme weather conditions. They hare it, but I can't do anything about my choice. It's my nature. I don't think I'm selfish
1 person likes this
@TheHorse (237406)
• Walnut Creek, California
28 Apr
I enjoy all different kinds of weather. Except tornadoes.
1 person likes this
@TheHorse (237406)
• Walnut Creek, California
28 Apr
@Shivram59 Hmm. I can't think of personal taste as being selfish.
1 person likes this
@Shivram59 (49312)
• India
29 Apr
@TheHorse Personal tastes can't be selfishness.
@Shivram59 (49312)
• India
28 Apr
Thank you. I enjoy all weather conditions, too. My friends hate extremes. They say I'm selfish, whereas I think it's my choice.
1 person likes this
@Traceyjayne (10458)
• United Kingdom
28 Apr
Everyone is different…..you enjoy what you want to enjoy ….others will do the same. No one can do anything about the weather ….
1 person likes this
@Shivram59 (49312)
• India
28 Apr
Thank you. I don't like them to suffer from cold or hot weather. But I can't do anything about my choices. I don't think I'm selfish, as my friends say.
@Wrexxo (1005)
28 Apr
I can't say you are selfish..you are just being you
1 person likes this
@Shivram59 (49312)
• India
28 Apr
Thank you. It's my choice. I don't want others to suffer from extreme weather conditions. I'm not selfish. I've my own likes and dislike, they have theirs. I don't think they are selfish.
1 person likes this
@Shivram59 (49312)
• India
29 Apr
@Wrexxo Thank you, my friend.
1 person likes this
@Wrexxo (1005)
29 Apr
1 person likes this
29 Apr
No You are not selfish You might be shell fish But not selfish