Do step Moms love to their step babies???

@sweetie88 (4556)
Pakistan
December 3, 2006 5:12am CST
What's urs opinion that do step Moms give same time, importance, love, attention, education etc. to their step-babies which they give to their own babies???????
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@fl0urish (5384)
• India
3 Dec 06
some dont but some really do that...
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@LovingIt (5396)
• United States
3 Dec 06
I think it varies greatly depending on the woman.
@sweetie88 (4556)
• Pakistan
4 Dec 06
Yeah, loving Mrs. American! U r right.
@sweetie88 (4556)
• Pakistan
3 Dec 06
Yeah, u r right.
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@valmiki9 (1171)
• India
4 Dec 06
Step mothers give every thing to their step children But one fundametal difference will always remain.It is like tha water in a well which has been filled in from some other source and that in the well which is filled from the fountain at the bottem of the well. The first one can dry up. The second one does not dry easily.
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@sweetie88 (4556)
• Pakistan
4 Dec 06
Thx. for giving such a good and impressive example!!!!!
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@LovingIt (5396)
• United States
3 Dec 06
I think it varies with the step-mom. There are good step moms, bad step moms, and great step moms. I was a step-mom myself and I really did try to be a good one. Honestly though, I could not love him, in my heart, as much as my own children. I did try not to show it though, and gave to him the same as I did my own children.
@sweetie88 (4556)
• Pakistan
4 Dec 06
That's nice. U'll n't get any reward in this world but will be rewarded by God for this great sacrifice.
@worker65 (160)
• New Zealand
7 Dec 06
I don't think you can make generalisations - every situation and person is different. Step mothers can love thier stepchildren as much as thier own kids. A lot depends on how much she has to do with them, eg do they live with her, and alos the personality of the kids and the mother. Like any relationship, it takes time and effort from both sides.
@sweetie88 (4556)
• Pakistan
7 Dec 06
Very good answer!!!!
@Xrated (3765)
• Pakistan
3 Dec 06
it depends on mom what kind of person she is
@sweetie88 (4556)
• Pakistan
4 Dec 06
U r right.
@nithila30 (1423)
• India
4 Dec 06
I dont think so everybody have the heart to do it.Its really hard to find people like that.But people having such kind heart also exists becoz my grand ma treated my mothers elder sister like her own child still now.
@sweetie88 (4556)
• Pakistan
7 Dec 06
That's great!!!!!
@ossie16d (11821)
• Australia
3 Dec 06
I think that most people have the capacity to love a child, even one that they haven't given birth to themselves. Of course a lot will depend on whether the other mother is around, the nature of the stepmother as well as the stepchildren and the support that the father gives the stepmother. A few of our friends have adopted children, have their own children naturally and in one case there are also stepchildren involved. The children are all treated equally by the parents, and this is in regard to everything including love, attention, education etc.
@sweetie88 (4556)
• Pakistan
3 Dec 06
Thx. for giving such a good answer!!!!!!
@ladyheart25 (1815)
• Philippines
3 Dec 06
I do think so but not all women are capable of loving their stepchildren.
@sweetie88 (4556)
• Pakistan
3 Dec 06
Yeah, u r right. I agree with u.
@uzaircs (2318)
• Sharjah, United Arab Emirates
3 Dec 06
mostly step moms not love their step babies but some love
@sweetie88 (4556)
• Pakistan
3 Dec 06
Thx. for replying.
@vivek2006 (1418)
• India
3 Dec 06
wel it depends on a person's character, how tha step mon is by nature, u know good or bad thats how we usually differentiate people. also that its not necessary that step moms wouldn't love their step babies, there are step moms who love their step babies more than their own.
@sweetie88 (4556)
• Pakistan
3 Dec 06
Yeah, there r but we see seldom such Moms.
@BoomYes (136)
• Indonesia
3 Dec 06
all mother love their children no matter the situation, status, or anything it's a natural feeling
@sweetie88 (4556)
• Pakistan
3 Dec 06
Very good answer!!!!!!!