She totally disappeared
By Michael
@Wrexxo (3595)
July 22, 2026 4:45pm CST
Its been a rough couple of days
..one incident that really struck me is this..a
so-called friend came begging for cash, swearing she'd pay back on the dot.
.. Fast forward, nothing but silence and dodging. I asked her for the money and she kept promising. She totally disappeared..ghosted me..
I see her and she act like I'm invisible. This isn't the first time, but trust me, it's the absolute last.
Why do people borrow with full chest and then form amnesia when it's time to refund? It's just premium eye-service. Its the people that are closest to you that hurt you most not your enemies.
..one incident that really struck me is this..a
so-called friend came begging for cash, swearing she'd pay back on the dot.
.. Fast forward, nothing but silence and dodging. I asked her for the money and she kept promising. She totally disappeared..ghosted me..
I see her and she act like I'm invisible. This isn't the first time, but trust me, it's the absolute last.
Why do people borrow with full chest and then form amnesia when it's time to refund? It's just premium eye-service. Its the people that are closest to you that hurt you most not your enemies.9 people like this
10 responses
@moirai (2956)
• Philippines
8h
Ah well... that happens, yes.
Which is why I don't really lend anyone money. 
Unless it's money that I don't really need back...
It is hard because I would hope that if I am ever in dire need, I can ask someone for help... But my thinking is if I find myself in that situation, if I am refused, that's life, we can't really expect or demand... But if someone does help by lending me money, I will make absolutely certain I pay it back in time, if not early. Because I firmly believe in "do unto others... ... ..." (you know the rest).
Unless it's money that I don't really need back...
It is hard because I would hope that if I am ever in dire need, I can ask someone for help... But my thinking is if I find myself in that situation, if I am refused, that's life, we can't really expect or demand... But if someone does help by lending me money, I will make absolutely certain I pay it back in time, if not early. Because I firmly believe in "do unto others... ... ..." (you know the rest).3 people like this
@AmbiePam (123327)
• United States
16h
I hope you never lend money to anyone again. You deserve so much better than to be treated so poorly. You have a good heart, but too many people don’t. I’ve given money to plenty of people, but I’ve always considered it a gift because I don’t expect them to pay me back. I don’t want to be upset if they neglect to repay me so I look at it as a gift.
2 people like this
@toniganzon (77956)
• Philippines
18h
Oh there's a lot of them out there and I have experienced it too many times. And those so-called friends aren't my friends anymore. I just tell myself, it's just money that I lost and that person lost a friend. Money I can easily recover, but a good friend, nope.
1 person likes this
@Traceyjayne (12394)
• United Kingdom
19h
I'm sorry that this has happened.
I would not lend her money again.
She is not a friend .
1 person likes this
@Deepizzaguy (123499)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
18h
I have had to deal with a few persons who ask me for money claiming to be broke. I give them the excuse I am broke myself.
1 person likes this
@teamfreak16 (44561)
• Denver, Colorado
19h
That's the best way to learn who is really a friend. Lend them money.
1 person likes this
@Ineeddentures (38916)
•
17h
I learned a long time ago
Never to mix money with friendship
And also
Never a lender or a borrower be
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