I don't give a damn, but she does!

By Toni
@toniganzon (78390)
Philippines
July 28, 2026 6:27pm CST
An elderly made a joke directed at me yesterday which made my sister snapped! My sister got offended with the joke as she took it as an insult to our relationship as siblings. The elderly got offended with how my sister reacted, as she was only joking and meant no offense as she knew nothing about our relationship. My sister is a very sensitive person. She always thinks that people talk behind her back. Sometimes, a simple comment could mean something else to her. In the end, she apologized to the elderly, and the elderly did the same. It was a simple misunderstanding. All's well that ends well.
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@kareng (80815)
• United States
29 Jul
Glad it turned out well!
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@kareng (80815)
• United States
29 Jul
@toniganzon (78390)
• Philippines
29 Jul
Me too!
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29 Jul
A storm in a tea cup A misunderstanding I am very sensitive
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@toniganzon (78390)
• Philippines
29 Jul
You are!
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29 Jul
@toniganzon Of course
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@moffittjc (129440)
• Gainesville, Florida
29 Jul
I have a co-worker that is extremely sensitive to everything that is said. I'm the opposite, I'm very laid back, nothing offends me very easily, and I take everything in stride. Even if people make fun of me, I just laugh right along side of them. It doesn't bother me.
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@toniganzon (78390)
• Philippines
29 Jul
I don't easily get offended as I don't take the jokes personally.
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@toniganzon (78390)
• Philippines
17h
@moffittjc You are a very wise man!
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@moffittjc (129440)
• Gainesville, Florida
1 Aug
@toniganzon I'm the same way, but even if someone is attacking me verbally or making fun of me in a serious way, I still don't get upset or offended. The best way to diffuse someone's attacking words is to play right along with it. Their words lose their power once they realize you won't react negatively to them.
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@thelme55 (79787)
• Germany
29 Jul
That is good it was settled.
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@toniganzon (78390)
• Philippines
29 Jul
Indeed it was.
@Wrexxo (4250)
29 Jul
Im happy everything got settled
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@toniganzon (78390)
• Philippines
29 Jul
Yeah, it was just a misunderstanding.
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