I am so spoilt/ lucky!

@Fleura (35992)
United Kingdom
August 3, 2026 12:15pm CST
Maybe spoilt isn’t the right word – after all I have worked to achieve what I have – but at the same time luck also plays a part so I guess I am very lucky. When I wake up in the morning I hear the birds singing outside. Sometimes they are so loud and it’s so early I almost want to shout at them to shut up! And I have a nice garden – admittedly half dead at the moment with the drought – and neighbours who are reasonably friendly and mostly fairly quiet. I just spent the weekend with old friends and although they have a lovely house which is much newer than ours with fancier fittings and much of it newly decorated, and a decent sized garden which could almost be considered quite large by modern standards, they are part of a fairly tightly-packed housing development which means they are surrounded by five neighbours, all of whom have those 6-foot high fences around the gardens, so you can’t actually see them and there isn’t much friendly interaction but you can hear them. When I woke up early in the morning at first it was dead quiet – not a single bird – and then the neighbour’s children started screaming and yelling. It made me feel so, so lucky to live where I do, with birds and trees. But it also really brought home to me that most people don’t have that, in fact the vast majority live in cities with houses all around and don’t even realise that they are missing anything because they’ve probably never even heard birds singing or seen a butterfly or bat. So of course they don’t care about ‘nature’ disappearing because they have never known any anyway, what difference would it make?
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@wolfgirl569 (138407)
• Marion, Ohio
44m
Sounds similar to here. I get up to birds and go to bed listening to raccoons and crickets.
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5h
Oh yes Nothing quite like a bit of space and peace and quiet Here is our old house No neighbours 3 acres of ground Visitors included Foxes, Squirrels and Deer
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@AmbiePam (124060)
• United States
1h
I am so glad you get to enjoy that. It sounds absolutely splendid, and like a real lifelong treat. I think treat is the perfect word. You paint a picture that reminds me of the backyard of my dad’s house. The birds sing, the squirrels plays, and I still remember the roadrunner coming up to the back door. It’s a little paradise. Their neighbors are gems too, quiet and caring. You notice I didn’t sing the virtue of my residence, but at least I can visit my dad and his wife!
@kaylachan (85838)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
2h
I know what you mean. I live in a nice neighborhood, and occassionally I do hear the birds or neighbors, but I keep to myself mostly. But I understand how that goes.
@RasmaSandra (99587)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
29m
Even though I live in a resort town, we are in a quiet area and I love night visits from a possum. We have become friends and he will take a sausage from my hand,