has it been that LONG already?

Cloverdale, Indiana
August 27, 2026 10:52pm CST
I can't believe we're going on 39 yrs of marriage where has the time went? I thank god everyday for the yrs we've been married & yes it's not been easy from day 1. But now that we are both retired I can't say it's all that bad as it use to be, when we 1st started out it was rough to say the lest, he was a truck driver driving a semi across the states & he had NO interest in me working so that was hard. So I did whatever I could to make some side $ while he was out on the road, 1 was cleaning house's, that didn't do so well people didn't like the idea of 10$ a hr for 3 hrs work so that failed. Then I started raising rabbits & that took of like a rocket, the old saying "they breed like rabbits" ? YEAH that's JUST what happened, I was in a off city limits area just off the LINE of a city in Fla, & man oh man it was a real blast at 1st. I stayed raising rabbits for like 10-15 yrs & after the hurricanes took me out 3 different times that's when I finally called it quits & we moved out of Fla to Indiana & haven't gotten back in the rabbit business since. I miss doing the rabbits but with my health & where we live I don't see ever getting back into it again + with the winters we have, no I'll pass, now I'm going to work on fish & see what I can do with them for the rest of what life I have left till I can't do it anymore. I'm still "SOMEWHAT" young enough to get something going, I'd hate to think I spent the kind of $ I have getting the shelter built buying the fish & everything to make a stab at it & I don't get past the front door with it. I know most may be thinking there's a lot of work in keeping fish but really it's no more work than washing dish's, vacuuming, mopping the floors, all in a day of cleaning house. I have to have something to keep me busy if something was to happen to my better 1/2 1 day & I'm left to pick up the piece, so why not take a stab at having fish to take care of & being I'm building a 17x15 foot shelter for it it won't hard to take care of them everyday. So what do you get for being married this long?
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@kareng (83563)
• United States
28 Aug
Happy Anniversary! We hit 45 years earlier this month! Time flies!!
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@kareng (83563)
• United States
30 Aug
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• Cloverdale, Indiana
30 Aug
Thank you, Happy Anniversary to you.
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• Philippines
22 Sep
Wow! that's long and I think he is a protective one and you are the submissive one, which is totally the right roles for husband and wife. He is a provider, and you are so blessed about it. I am glad to know that you were able to find something you can do and it is a fun one. Your are raising rabbits, I want one, but my mom said no. So I am just fine looking at my friend's rabbits, lol. Do you have a manmade pond in your garden?
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• Cloverdale, Indiana
24 Sep
yeah, we have a long time life together & hope to have a lot longer time together, I use to raise rabbits but I don't anymore, I don't have the strength for it like I use to.
@jstory07 (150121)
• Roseburg, Oregon
28 Aug
That is a long time to spend with one person. Happy Anniversary. Are you doing anything special.
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• Cloverdale, Indiana
30 Aug
Yes it is, we'll go out to eat that's about as special as it gets cause there's nothing here to do anything special here.
@wolfgirl569 (142076)
• Marion, Ohio
28 Aug
Happy anniversary
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• Cloverdale, Indiana
30 Aug
thank you.
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@RasmaSandra (101969)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
28 Aug
Happy Anniversary to you. Lucky you still together, Many blessings,
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• Cloverdale, Indiana
30 Aug
Thank you, It took a lot of work, but it was WELL worth it.
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@Wrexxo (10552)
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28 Aug
Wow..39 years is a long time. I'm so happy for you. I'm not married but I wish to stay married till we die.
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• Cloverdale, Indiana
30 Aug
Yes it is, there's a lot of memories to remember the good & the bad but the BEST part is we're still together, that's where the always & 4- ever stands tall in our marriage.
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