Toxic relationships is dangerous

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Some or even a lot of relationships have been deadly or even poisonous for & with their partners in them. There's a lot to say about being in a Toxic relationship there's nothing good to say about being in a long term relationship with someone you "thought" was your partner just to find out that their intentions wasn't what you wanted. I've been in a Toxic relationship & I learned real fast like it's not a good place to be, it can really turn ugly & very unpredictable, There are 1.000's of people who have been killed by being in them, there are many that has scares from living in a Toxic relationship, it changes your life. You can talk to anyone who's been in a Toxic relationship they will be very adaptable to telling you the horrors they have been through & what it took to escape with everything they could to get away from their partner. I have a friend I've been trying for yrs to break her from her hell, but as hard as this sounds there's nothing any 1 can do till the person living in it wakes up & gets to a point where they see what your have been telling them. I think she has finally seen the full reality of what I have been telling her for the past 5 + yrs & now she's wanting to get out, she's used every excuse she could to stay but she finally sees what I have been telling her all this time. We had a long conversation about this last night & I want to share some of it with you so if you EVER get in a bad relationship with some 1 learn the signs EARLY. (friend)> I can’t have visitors anymore there’s a chance I won’t even be here I can’t go on like this anymore jr won’t even go along with me on anything anymore and when I try to talk to others they look at me like it’s all about me so jr is getting so much worse. Me WHAT ? ? That's SO DISRESPECTFUL ! ! ! Marriage is a 2 way street if you can't have friends then neither should he. that's B-S ! ! ! Me If You PLAN on leaving you know you are always welcomed here, we'll work to get you set up somewhere Close you just tell me when. Her I thought u were hurt at me this is me telling you just how far things have come thank u so much for offering to help me life as im seeing it isn’t very helpful a almost unbearable just have a lot to to do a thing about there is a lot a mean a lot against me. Me can you drive up here ? Her No I can’t and even if I could I won’t have a Car and even if I did I can’t afford to drive it u see I will have to wait to get money to live on a today it takes a lot to get set up well thank u I will let u know if I have to run away. With just that little bit I've shared with you what does that tell you ? like I said this has been going on for yrs & it's never easy for this to hit you in the face to try & figure out how to escape it. Me We can get you away from this if you would just take that 1st step cause the longer you stay the worse it will be. TRUST ME, I've been THERE ! ! I left with NOTHING & I mean O NADA A DAMN THING but the clothes on my back. there's no more excuses or reasons to keep living this way. Me Indiana is a woman's state where we can get you some place safe & he won't find you it's called a women's shelter where they help you get on your feet. Me I've got a list of homeless shelters we can call, you just have to be willing to except the help. Her I’d rather not talk on this phone or I mean not text that would be great so hang in there with me on this, there is some serious stuff going on here a it needs attention I’m hoping things will change. I can’t just fix things when I want to got to work with other people Me like who ? & how long is it going to take ? I on pin & needles here. Her Relax that is why I haven’t told u anything a no u r not coming to get me & use your $, I have a little for myself, you’re getting ahead of me I'm not going anywhere without a reason I already have a way to get out. Me you have plenty of reasons for leaving. from who ? (who is helping her?) this is scary Her Can’t tell u yet just trust me Me it's not going anywhere, you know that. Her Yes but u don’t know what I have in mind to do Me Don't do anything you'll regret later or catch up with you. This sounds like some sort of horror movie & in real life like this it is, this is the last part I'm going to share. Her I’m working on it a it’s going to take a little more time that’s why I’m taking more time and trying to get the right kind of information. I believe I know what I’m doing here I don’t want any mistakes Me just don't get in trouble what ever you have in mind. Her I don’t plan to if I do things right a believe I have good people helping me thing will put those others in the fault. Well from what you just read what would you think is going on & what would you do in this relationship ? thank you for hanging out with me & being there for any help (advice) you can share with others in this kind of situation they may be in & need help to get out. P.S I forgot to add a link to help others out.