This is what she wants me to do.

@AmbiePam (127374)
United States
September 18, 2026 4:20pm CST
My sister is going on two cruises next year. She thinks I should take the money I’ll save by cutting cable and go on a cruise next year with her. She doesn’t plan on getting off the boat. It’s a Mexican cruise in the off season so it’s cheap. I’m not sure she’s in touch with my reality. I take 14 medications, and insurance only pays for six. The cost of groceries is going up, as is electricity. I thought I had things to sell, but dumb and dumber threw those things away. Don’t get me wrong, I’m excited. It’s a huge burden to cut that cable. And I still make some survey money (we can’t talk about survey sites so that’s all I’ll say), but I feel like planning a cruise for next year is just not practical. I’m looking forward to this Canadian cruise. I think this one will last me a good while. And quite frankly, bills always appear and take money you thought you were saving. Another cruise just isn’t a good idea.
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@Juliaacv (57526)
• Canada
9m
I don't have any sisters, but I see the two of you as total opposites. I think that it makes great sense to see how you feel about the first cruise. The decision for another next year can wait, and don't let it hamper your fun time that you'll be having on this cruise, after all, its been a long time in the making.
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@AmbiePam (127374)
• United States
6m
That’s a good reminder, Julia. Focus on the heart and now. This cruise is exciting enough. Eight days of a wonderful time!
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@AmbiePam (127374)
• United States
1m
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@Juliaacv (57526)
• Canada
2m
@AmbiePam That's the spirit Amber! And if you are sitting together and you casually mention that nothing could ever top this, then so be it.....
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@RasmaSandra (101020)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
29m
Hey, how about coming down to Florida???? We could try being Lucy and Ethel and see how that works for us,
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@AmbiePam (127374)
• United States
28m
Florida is the only place I know of where the humidity is worse than Oklahoma!
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@RasmaSandra (101020)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
26m
@AmbiePam C'est la vie then the mountain might have to go to Mohammed but finances won't allow it. SIGH
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@snowy22315 (212962)
• United States
38m
I think you both should wait and see how this cruise goes before you make any plans for the future. My sister has offered to pay a large portion of my hotel costs for the wedding trip. I did not ask her too,and paid up front but she knows how much it cost. What can I say? She can really be a super sis. I am going to write more about that tomorrow..
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@AmbiePam (127374)
• United States
34m
She’s got two cruises planned for next year, and two more planned for 2028.
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@teamfreak16 (46737)
• Denver, Colorado
Just now
I can't even afford to travel to the other side of the city. Do what works best for you.
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• Defuniak Springs, Florida
Just now
Yeah I wouldnt be able to plan ahead that far lol
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@Wrexxo (7629)
Just now
Yeah bills always find a way to eat up money you thought was saved, that part is too real. Sounds like your sister means well but she not really seeing what you dealing with day to day. Enjoy the Canadian one, that already sound like plenty for now honestly.
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@AmbiePam (127374)
• United States
Just now
Yes, exactly.
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@wolfgirl569 (140630)
• Marion, Ohio
18m
If you feel better waiting then wait.
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@nawala123 (23346)
• Indonesia
Just now
I think your sister does know but that is not she want. You did good Amber
@Neil43 (4629)
Just now
I hope I can go on a cruise once.