It is true!

By Toni
@toniganzon (81593)
Philippines
October 2, 2026 5:45pm CST
I had this theory several years ago that my sleepless nights was due to someone making me feel bad. For the past couple of weeks, I had been really sleeping so well. I was well rested, I slept early and would wake up at my usual time feeing good. But then last night, it's like a switch was turned off. Somebody made me feel so bad that I couldn't sleep at all. I watched Sugar on Apple TV until sleep finally caught on me. I woke up way too early because i still feel really bad and couldn't make myself go back to sleep. What makes you stay up so late?
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@LadyDuck (504815)
• Italy
3 Oct
I am a worrier, if there is something I know needs my attention the day after I do not arrive to sleep. I go to bed early, read but when I turn off the light I cannot really sleep right now.
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@toniganzon (81593)
• Philippines
3 Oct
Yeah that happens to me. I tried to sleep but it was elusive.
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@toniganzon (81593)
• Philippines
3 Oct
@LadyDuck Yeah, I dont have my books with me anymore and I don't like reading on my iPad or phone because of the glare. I'm actually considering getting a kindle.
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@LadyDuck (504815)
• Italy
3 Oct
@toniganzon - I read a lot when I do not arrive to sleep.
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@kaylachan (86734)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
3 Oct
I'm glad you seem to be sleeping better. Getting rid of unknown stressers in your life can help.
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@kaylachan (86734)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
3 Oct
@toniganzon That's true for a lot of people. The people close to you can have the most impact.
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@toniganzon (81593)
• Philippines
4 Oct
@kaylachan Yeah because they matter much more to us and whatever they say or do will hurt is more than those we aren't that really close to.
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@toniganzon (81593)
• Philippines
3 Oct
Yeah, I don't get stressed with work no matter how busy it gets. I get more affected by the people who I consider important in my life.
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@AmbiePam (130598)
• United States
2 Oct
I’m not really sure what makes me stay up so late. Pain, recently back pain (from my previous car wreck) for sure, but sometimes my mind just won’t quit thinking about everything I need to do.
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@AmbiePam (130598)
• United States
3 Oct
@toniganzon Yes, the arthritis really acts up.
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@toniganzon (81593)
• Philippines
3 Oct
Does it hurt more during colder months?
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@RasmaSandra (101307)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
2 Oct
Haven't stayed yp really late in a while,
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@toniganzon (81593)
• Philippines
3 Oct
How early do you sleep?
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@RasmaSandra (101307)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
3 Oct
@toniganzon I read and turn my light off about 11 PM
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@toniganzon (81593)
• Philippines
3 Oct
@RasmaSandra You sleep around that time too?
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@JESSY3236 (22553)
• United States
6 Oct
Nightmares can keep me up. But lately I haven't sleeping good because either I'm too hot or I can't turn off my thoughts.
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@toniganzon (81593)
• Philippines
6 Oct
When it's too hot, I just turn on the air conditioner. But I can never turn off my thoughts. Too difficult.
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@JohnRoberts (107100)
• Los Angeles, California
3 Oct
The problem isn't that I stay up late but sleep only a handful of hours.
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@toniganzon (81593)
• Philippines
3 Oct
How many hours do you usually sleep?
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@toniganzon (81593)
• Philippines
4 Oct
@JohnRoberts Yeah I do get that. 4- 5 hours of sleep. 6 hours is a luxury for me.
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@JohnRoberts (107100)
• Los Angeles, California
3 Oct
@toniganzon around 4.
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@shaggin (75356)
• United States
3 Oct
Ugh that is the worst. I wonder how it feels for others who can go around hurting others and sleep. It would keep me up all night knowing I hurt someone else’s feelings. It keeps me awake as well when I am upset.
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@toniganzon (81593)
• Philippines
3 Oct
Yeah and imagine that person just fell asleep as if nothing happened. That made me feel worse.
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@snowy22315 (213424)
• United States
3 Oct
I try not to stay up late..what I don't like is waking up early, and it happens all the time..sniff.
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@toniganzon (81593)
• Philippines
3 Oct
Oh no. I don't mind waking up early when I sleep at my usual time.
@Wrexxo (9223)
•
3 Oct
Sorry that happened, it's awful when someone's words stay in your head all night. I notice my sleep goes bad too when something is bothering me, so your theory makes sense. Hope you can rest better tonight and that Sugar was at least a good watch.
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@toniganzon (81593)
• Philippines
3 Oct
Yeah i hope I could sleep better tonight but I am still really feeling bad about yesterday night. My head is getting heavy though.
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