TRUST?

United States
December 3, 2006 5:05pm CST
Is there love without trust? Can you actually be in a relationship with someone you love more then life itself and have them not trust you or completely think the worst of you? and the final question.... should you stay with someone that does not trust you???
5 responses
@Darkwing (21588)
3 Dec 06
No, I believe honesty and trust are the foundations of love. You need to earn their trust and find out why they don't trust you. They may just be jealous, or wonder how somebody can love them so much, in other words, insecure. If you love them so much, stay a while and work on it... surprise her sometimes, either with your presence, or presents, tickets to a concert or something. Show her how much you love her and maybe her trust will grow. Good luck... I hope this helps. :-)
• United States
5 Dec 06
We have talked and I believe that you exactly correct. there is that insucrity there that was that almighty question hanging over our heads... "why are you with me?" thanks for you responce. I think that maybe we will be just fine...
@Darkwing (21588)
10 Dec 06
You're quite welcome. I'm glad you've been able to talk things through because I think this is very important to you. Good luck to the pair of you in your future lives together. :-)
• United States
5 Dec 06
why would you want to be with someone who thinks anything less than the world of you? I would. I dont believe its worth it. just like it would not be worth it to be with someone who doesnt trust you. that isnt a relationship.
• United States
5 Dec 06
thanks babes
• Singapore
4 Dec 06
i think it will be very tough to be with someone and yet there's no trust at all. when there's no trust, there will be a lot of suspicion and queries..it will get annoying at some time. i will not stay in a relationship that have no trust.
@Mommamea (1215)
• United States
4 Dec 06
Trust is a part of truly loving relationship. If there is a doubt in the trust you should be able to go to that person and discuss it without losing the love. Why would you want to be in a relationship with someone that doesn't trust you? You must build that relationship on trust or it will not work. If you cannot convince that person to trust you then you alone will not be happy. You will rage over trying to get that person to trust to the point you will lose yourself. Counseling always helps.
@Marie2473 (8519)
• Sweden
3 Dec 06
I hope so. that the person will stay despite the lack of trust, just because i am in the situartion where i am having a hard time trusting. Please read my input" Relationshipadvice/help wanted" wich you can find on my profile and see for your self - if you have the time =)