The Cost of Love

@klongwh (130)
China
December 3, 2006 5:22pm CST
One day my daughter wanted to get paid for doing some routine household chores, so she gave me the following list: For washing the car………………………….$5.00 For making my own bed this week……………….$1.00 Going to the provision shop…………………..$0.50 Playing with little sister …………………..$0.25 Taking out the rubbish……………………….$1.00 Getting a good report card……………………$5.00 And for sweeping the common corridor…………..$2.00 Total …………………………………….$14.75 I looked at her standing there expecting payment. A thousand memories flashed through my mind. So I picked up a pen and turning the paper over, this is what I wrote: For 9 months I carried you, growing inside me………………..NoCharge For the nights I sat up with you, doctored and prayed for you….NoCharge For the toys, food and clothes and wiping your nose…………..NoCharge When you add it all up, the full cost of my love……………..NoCharge Well, when she finished reading, she had great big tears in her eyes. She looked at me and said, "Mummy, I love you." Then she took the pen and in great big letters, she wrote, "PAID IN FULL".
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@Darkwing (21583)
3 Dec 06
That's a very good way of dealing with this situation. I wonder, do you give her pocket money? If so, stop giving her it and give her a list of things to do, outside her normal household chores, for which you can alot an amount to pay her. She obviously wants to be independent and earn some money, but the things she has listed are everyday chores she should be doing, as you say, for love. Her reaction to your returned bill, shows how much she loves you. It was a wonderful reaction. What would we do without kids, huh? I love them all. :-)
@wynna1 (1291)
4 Dec 06
Wow, this a very nice experience that you have. Kids are kids really, maybe she just wanted to earn a bit on her own and this is what she can think of. But then again, as soon as you did your calculation for her its really very nice for her to realise the importance of what you did for her for all those years. Maybe it would be nice to reward her with something if she's doing well.You're very lucky to have such a very wonderful daughter.
• United States
3 Dec 06
that is a cute lil story ... you should save that paper and show it to her when she gets older.. maybe she can use the same idea with her kids
@kommagao (68)
• China
3 Dec 06
thank you
@kommagao (68)
• China
3 Dec 06
good