Have you been cheated?

Philippines
December 4, 2006 12:43am CST
Have you been cheated? or you being a cheater? in what way?
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20 responses
@myslewis (286)
• Australia
31 Dec 06
I am sorry you were cheated on! I was cheated on by the man I loved most in my life. We were living together and I found out he was still married to his wife and had four children in ANOTHER state. He travelled alot and was able to get away with it. His wife didn't know about it either, so we were both horribly betrayed. I ended up losing my house because of this guy, cos he also cheated me financially. Ahh we live and learn:)
• Philippines
12 Jan 07
wow , . . . thats not fair . im sory to hear that .
@myslewis (286)
• Australia
13 Jan 07
nahh it's not fair, but sociopaths hide their true nature very well!
• Australia
1 Oct 09
Thats a ripper story mum. You forgot to tell how many times you cheated on my dad. Remember when he was at work you were taking lunch breaks with the boys. You are right about sociopaths; you've managed to hide yourself well. You also forgot to mention how many married men you have been with and how many marriages you've broken up. Lots of love C
• India
16 Mar 07
It never happen to me one way or the other. But I've heard people talking about their experience. Some did come clean and were forgiven, although the trust had gone, and something had gone from the relationship. Some never did, although the partner did suspect it, but that partner was strong enough to know that she had to do her best to bring her man back to her, and succeeded brillantly. Other live in the dread that they might be discovered. Personnally, until it happens, I wouldn't know. I mean some relationship are worth saving, depending on what is at stake, and if the love is truly there; Because after all, people do make mistake, who hasn't ?! On the other hand, the pain might be such that it just outshines everything else, and the sensible thing to do is to break up. So, If you think that the guilt will kill you, then maybe confess, sooner rather than later. Also you'd know your man, do you think he would want you to tell him or not? Would it be better to severe all ties with the person you cheated with,and that would be the end of the matter? I think that knowing your man, and what you want, will give you a clue as how to deal with that best. Good luck.
• Philippines
19 Apr 07
Its good to know that it never had happen to you. But sometimes, others just cant be themselves that they keep on covering their mistakes. Just be you, so you will never be cheated.
@kutchi87 (84)
• Pakistan
19 Jan 07
i am only cheated in my studies.
• Philippines
20 Jan 07
i guess thats normal. . .
@MAX1966 (1029)
• Netherlands
14 Feb 07
i have been cheated. he was in bed with his ex girlfriend. i walked away. i never spoke to him again
• Philippines
22 Feb 07
ouch . . . you caught him in the act? thats too sad . . .
@ohfunds (38)
• United States
24 Feb 07
Lucky for me the guys that I have been with broke up with me before sleeping with someone else. Some people in my family on the other hand have cheated, but at the time I was too young to understand.
• Philippines
16 Mar 07
cool . . .
@sunny1984 (639)
• India
22 Feb 07
No I have not ever been cheated becouse all my friends and relatives are good.
• Philippines
23 Feb 07
thanks. . .
@Sorathian (4329)
• Pakistan
4 Dec 06
I Only Cheat In Examination Hall :D
• Philippines
4 Dec 06
lol . . . good to know that.
@jilcruz (373)
• Philippines
31 Dec 06
Once..my bf..
• Philippines
12 Jan 07
ouch . . dabawenyo ba?
@raul666 (405)
• Romania
4 Dec 06
no idont cheat.. is a bad thing
• Philippines
4 Dec 06
its good to know . . . for me, ive been cheated.
@kingadnan (1540)
• Pakistan
19 Jan 07
No i have never cheated in my life, thanks dude
• Philippines
19 Jan 07
same here . . . thats bad .
@hmike_d (1529)
• Philippines
15 Jan 07
can you consider this a cheat?..... when we were just newly-married, i once or even twice peep on my wife while she's on the bathroom... another one is... when i was in college & still single.. i was on the bathroom when i noticed someone's peeping.. and i discover my roommate.. i can't say he's gay coz he's more "aztig" than me and in fact has gf. Did he cheated me? if so, that means, i was cheated! waaaaaaaaaaa!
• Philippines
15 Jan 07
yeah, you have been cheated . . . hyahahahaha . . .
@telzzz (66)
• Spain
15 Jan 07
Yeah, I was cheated on real bad by a former girfriend. Some nights I'd stay at her place and some nights not as she didn't want us to move in together too soon. Then she just dumped me out of the blue - I was really upset until I later found out from a friend that she was sleeping around on the night's I didn't stay with her. She did a cleaning job and I found out she even slept with the husbands of the people she cleaned for. What a puta!
• Philippines
16 Jan 07
wow . . . thats not ordinary. i pity you . . .
@burieks (127)
• Philippines
17 Jan 07
yes by my ex-bf. he was seeing someone while still in a relationship with me. he tells me lies like, he was in school or at work but all the while he's with his gf.
• Philippines
17 Jan 07
wow pity you!!!
• Philippines
19 Jan 07
yes i've been cheated once. but i've forgived them.
• Philippines
14 Feb 07
good for you . . .
@gotcho0O (1257)
• United States
14 Feb 07
Yes. I don't cheat. But he has done it before a lot of times. First, he dump me because of this new girl he met. That girl is a flirt one. Without in his knowledge, the girl is assuming that they're in a commitment. So ofcourse it's a chance, my guy take advantage of the situation. Wtf?! 2nd, he wanted me back. Weeks or a month after, without any communication, I knew there's something wrong again. And according to some news and blah blah from friends, he did it again. He have been crushing into a lot of girls hahaha. Well, I don't know exactly but all I can say is that, whenever he cheats on me, it's always a third party reason. I'm tired actually. But how will I let go of the person I really love badly. I'd like to let go but I couldn't. I love him. So much. And more. After that 5 years on and off relationship, now we're in a 1 year and 1 month straight long distance relationship. According to my observation, although there's intuition I don't know if it's a paranoid cause only but I'm so worried, ok moving on, I think he's quite good now. He's focusing with his studies and our long distance communication via phone calls, chat and mails.
• Philippines
19 Jan 07
I had been cheated and I had cheated too! Both applies. Perhaps, sometimes, people make mistakes that you really cannot avoid. You fall to the trap of "deception" until you realize, you have hurt the one's who trully love you.
@k73hrx (81)
• Indonesia
16 Jan 07
i'm cheating only when i'm playing PC game. why? i play game for fun. and if the game is getting harder and harder, it's make me frustation and that not good for my healt. so, for my own sake, i do cheating...:D
• India
19 Jan 07
No, i don't cheat. Cheating is a very bad habit.
• Philippines
17 Jan 07
My answer would be the most boring one 'cos I've never cheated nor been cheated on. hehe. I just don't think anyone deserves to be cheated on. More so, why be in a relationship if you're going to cheat anyway? I don't see the point.
• Canada
14 Feb 07
yup! been cheated so many times. hhmm.. yeah,ive cheated maybe because i was so angry and that i wanna get even.