Have you been cheated?
31 Dec 06
I am sorry you were cheated on! I was cheated on by the man I loved most in my life. We were living together and I found out he was still married to his wife and had four children in ANOTHER state. He travelled alot and was able to get away with it. His wife didn't know about it either, so we were both horribly betrayed. I ended up losing my house because of this guy, cos he also cheated me financially. Ahh we live and learn:)
1 Oct 09
Thats a ripper story mum. You forgot to tell how many times you cheated on my dad. Remember when he was at work you were taking lunch breaks with the boys. You are right about sociopaths; you've managed to hide yourself well. You also forgot to mention how many married men you have been with and how many marriages you've broken up. Lots of love C
16 Mar 07
It never happen to me one way or the other. But I've heard people talking about their experience. Some did come clean and were forgiven, although the trust had gone, and something had gone from the relationship. Some never did, although the partner did suspect it, but that partner was strong enough to know that she had to do her best to bring her man back to her, and succeeded brillantly. Other live in the dread that they might be discovered. Personnally, until it happens, I wouldn't know. I mean some relationship are worth saving, depending on what is at stake, and if the love is truly there; Because after all, people do make mistake, who hasn't ?! On the other hand, the pain might be such that it just outshines everything else, and the sensible thing to do is to break up. So, If you think that the guilt will kill you, then maybe confess, sooner rather than later. Also you'd know your man, do you think he would want you to tell him or not? Would it be better to severe all ties with the person you cheated with,and that would be the end of the matter? I think that knowing your man, and what you want, will give you a clue as how to deal with that best. Good luck.
15 Jan 07
can you consider this a cheat?..... when we were just newly-married, i once or even twice peep on my wife while she's on the bathroom... another one is... when i was in college & still single.. i was on the bathroom when i noticed someone's peeping.. and i discover my roommate.. i can't say he's gay coz he's more "aztig" than me and in fact has gf. Did he cheated me? if so, that means, i was cheated! waaaaaaaaaaa!
15 Jan 07
Yeah, I was cheated on real bad by a former girfriend. Some nights I'd stay at her place and some nights not as she didn't want us to move in together too soon. Then she just dumped me out of the blue - I was really upset until I later found out from a friend that she was sleeping around on the night's I didn't stay with her. She did a cleaning job and I found out she even slept with the husbands of the people she cleaned for. What a puta!
• United States
14 Feb 07
Yes. I don't cheat. But he has done it before a lot of times. First, he dump me because of this new girl he met. That girl is a flirt one. Without in his knowledge, the girl is assuming that they're in a commitment. So ofcourse it's a chance, my guy take advantage of the situation. Wtf?! 2nd, he wanted me back. Weeks or a month after, without any communication, I knew there's something wrong again. And according to some news and blah blah from friends, he did it again. He have been crushing into a lot of girls hahaha. Well, I don't know exactly but all I can say is that, whenever he cheats on me, it's always a third party reason. I'm tired actually. But how will I let go of the person I really love badly. I'd like to let go but I couldn't. I love him. So much. And more. After that 5 years on and off relationship, now we're in a 1 year and 1 month straight long distance relationship. According to my observation, although there's intuition I don't know if it's a paranoid cause only but I'm so worried, ok moving on, I think he's quite good now. He's focusing with his studies and our long distance communication via phone calls, chat and mails.
19 Jan 07
I had been cheated and I had cheated too! Both applies. Perhaps, sometimes, people make mistakes that you really cannot avoid. You fall to the trap of "deception" until you realize, you have hurt the one's who trully love you.
17 Jan 07
My answer would be the most boring one 'cos I've never cheated nor been cheated on. hehe. I just don't think anyone deserves to be cheated on. More so, why be in a relationship if you're going to cheat anyway? I don't see the point.