My mom

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I've had a hard time getting pregnant because of a sickness and many surgeries. I lost my first baby when I was 5 monthes pregnant, and a second one a 2 month pregnancy. All this time and before also, even with living far away, my mom was always by my side, either by phone or in person, and was always here to comfort me and help me out throught these hard times. In July 2005, I gave birth by C-section and prematurely to a wonderful little boy who is now growing fast and healthy. Mom came to visit me a week after, and since that day, she don't want to talk to me anymore. She invoqued ridiculous pretexts to explain why she was angry with me, but none of these (who are changing each time depending the person she talks to) are valuable to explainwhy she don't want to see me or my little angel. I would maybe understand she can be angry with me, but her attitude towards the baby is really ununderstandable. I do obviously miss my mom, but I did now pass through my sadness and I'm more kind of angry! I think (knowing I did write and call her already without answer)that the only solutionI have now is to go there and have an explanation with her about the real reasons of her attitude. Dad is suffering also very much from this situation, he tried to makes the things go better, tried to talk with her, but without success. This discussion I would have with her may be kind of rude and I know it will maybe not help. But, at least things cannot be worse than now. What is your opinion about my wish, and what would you do in this situation? Your input will be really appreciated! Thanks