DO YOU THINK ITS MORE CRUELTY DONE TO A CHILD BY A DIVORCE

India
December 4, 2006 9:11am CST
DO U THINK DIVORCE SHOULD BE BANNED TO THOSE WHO HAVE CHILD
10 responses
@Marie2473 (8519)
• Sweden
4 Dec 06
NO ofcourde not. A child would be more damaged by seeng parent living in a bad relationship who may contain nothing more than fighting!
• India
4 Dec 06
CANT THE PARENTS STOP FIGHTING FOR THE SAKE OF THEIR CHILD. HERE I WILL LIKE TO ADD THOSE PARENTS FIGHT THEY ARE MORE CHILDISH THAN THEIR OWN CHILD
@jricbt (1455)
• Brazil
4 Dec 06
Yes, it is better a divorce and a child that understands that it will be better for her, than two parents fighting in the same house. And if the parents try to live together because of the child, it will be even worst. The child may suffer and consider itself guilty of its parents problems.
@calico79 (173)
• United States
4 Dec 06
I think divorce has a huge impact on a child. I don't think it should be banned though. I believe in divorce only if there is abuse in the marriage or infidelity. But for any other reason I dont think people should divorce. I think they should try to work it out as much as possible. If they were in love enough to marry a person then they should love them enough to make it work.
• India
4 Dec 06
YES DEFINATELY..ITS THE CHILD WHO SUFFERS IN THAT CASE..PARENTS GO DIFFERENT WAYS..CHILDREN CANT DO THAT
@honeybfly83 (1021)
• United States
4 Dec 06
No I dont think that it should because if we forced two people to stay together because they had a child because the child will be no better off with parents that are together but fighting all the time and probably not sleeping together most of the time ect. I think that would be more "cruel" to the child than having his parents divorce. that is just my opinion.
@TerryZ (22083)
• United States
4 Dec 06
No because then you would have a bigger problem people would be staying with people when they dont belong with them and knows what would happen especially in the world we live today.
@cr1st1nel (3567)
• Romania
4 Dec 06
My opinion is that divorce is a totally crap if you marry someone make sure that you'll stick to it all your life or other simply don't marry.So defenetly i do not agree with the divorce.And yes it is a very traumatic experience for a child to pass through an process of divorce
• United States
4 Dec 06
Divorce shopuld not be banned for those with children. If you are that bad off that you need a divorce than regaurdless if your children see you fight or not they do feel the tension and it affects their behaviors also and i am speaking from experience. I think some parents should be more responsible as to get along with the other parent after the divorce for their childrens sake but so long as the conversations are basicly only about the children cuz i also know how hard it is to try and remain friends with an ex for your children. But it is extremly important they see what a healthy relationship looks like and if the two parents are not in a healthy one it is more than likely your children will follow in your steps. I have a theroy whan it comes to me and my ex that i want us to get along as much as posible cuz i want my children to see that people can be friends regaurdless their problems and can still love them (the child) no matter what
• Pakistan
4 Dec 06
this is not humanity
• United States
4 Dec 06
No i do not. Divorce is not easy on a child there is so much pain involved. But 'staying together for the children' rarely ever works and causes more hurt to the child seeing thier parents fight, verbally abuse eachother, (or worse) physical vilolence, even seeing a parent cheat. This is just my opinion.
@precy828 (1295)
• Philippines
4 Dec 06
i think children nowadays are really intelligent and smart and they really know what is going on between their parents already.i believe that if you will just tell your kid what the real score,maybe they will easily understand besides all you can assure them is to give them your 101% love now that you are already a single parent.just give them the assurance so that they won't get insecured with other people.