WHAT SHOULD I DO???

my boyfriend - this is my boyfriend
Romania
December 4, 2006 2:53pm CST
HY...Acouple of months i meet a guy on the internet,He is 31 years and i'm 22,he is very cute.Infact he is gorgeous,nice,smart,handsome,he has everything that a man needs.He likes me very much,he likes how i look,he likes the fact that i'm joking every time.We have a good comunication.For the Christmas and new year he will come to Romania.He is a romania guy who moved up to England 13 years ago.He proposed me to celebrate the xmass whit him.I accepted and now we are planing our vacantion and we are making rezervations to the hotel where we are going to stay.I told my parent's about him and the fact that we are going to make our xmass toghether and they are ok whit this. What do you people think about this?Is it ok to go or not?
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22 responses
@pagli84 (1850)
• Netherlands
4 Dec 06
i dont know, i would be very scared about meeting someone like that...especially after knowing him only for a few months. but maybe he really is a nice guy...just be very careful and cautious. i hope everything turns out ok for you.
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• Romania
20 Dec 06
hy! thanks for your answer.i holp that it will be ok.in 2 days i'm going
@urzicutza (1972)
• Romania
6 Dec 06
well you know that if thi fact makes you happy i am happy! but i hope you will be verry careful!and you will take care of you self right? well i dont know what als i sould say!i hope that everuthing will be just the way yoy plan to! and i hop that you will not be desipointed about this guy like you are every time when you meat someone! trey to accept all of his litle things :) because you have yor own to! ok kiss and all the best and HAPPY BIRTH DAY TO YOU SWWT MOM!
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@Marie2473 (8516)
• Sweden
5 Dec 06
I would never spend x-mas with a guy i´ve never met, only chatted with on the internet. Not only because of danger, also because it is a holiday for familys!
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• Italy
5 Dec 06
I wouldn't go. Christmas is not to celebrate in a hotel.xD
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@barcir (932)
• Italy
5 Dec 06
It's Ok, but I think you must know him for about a couple of weeks before you go on vacation with him
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@reeseyj (906)
• United States
4 Dec 06
I think its weird. Christmas is for family.Staying at a hotel with a guy you don't now gross.
@kylesmiles (1911)
• United States
4 Dec 06
I have a feeling you copied this discussion since your profile says you are 51! Not only that, I bet you are a DUDE! So if you are 51, why do you need to tell your parents!? Grow up and live your own life...
@brentjh (679)
• Namibia
5 Dec 06
aaahahahahaha! Yah and your profile says you want to be left alone! So if you want to be left alone, what's with meeting up with this guy who is probably going to bang you from morning to night in that hotel room! aaahahahahahaha!
@nicu1985 (587)
• Romania
27 Jan 07
You might give a try and find out what it will come up
@caribe (2465)
• United States
6 Dec 06
That is really a dangerous thing to do. If he really cared about you, he wouldn't want your first meeting to be in a hotel. Handsome or not, he might be some really sick pervert and the photos you saw might not even be him. Why did you say in another post that your parents don't know about it? You said you didn't tell them everything. You should not go. This thing gives me a really bad feeling and I fear for you.
@suren2k6cse (2624)
• India
6 Dec 06
ok go no problem
• Ireland
5 Dec 06
I think that you should meet in a restaurant first and have a good chat so that you can get to know him better. I wouldn't be inclined to book into a hotel or go on holiday with him unless I knew a bit about his family and his background.
@micheller (1365)
• United States
5 Dec 06
well meeting someone over the computer is never a great idea. you never know who they really are. he could be a serial killer for all you know. all i can say is if you do decide to go. let your parents know where exactly you are at and keep in touch with them every morning and night, just to be safe lol.
• Anguilla
5 Dec 06
I really do not know. You have to follow your heart and your instaints with this one. I cannot and will not judge you
@virgos (61)
• United States
5 Dec 06
yes I think it is okay for you to go. If you got a good man then you need to keep him and consider yourself lucky that you will not be looking when you are old.
@lilmissy (481)
• United States
5 Dec 06
sure i think its great ! why not ?you have spoken and communicated with him for monthes that is more than most thought that people give to the person they picked up drunk in a bar and took home for a one night stand ........how sad when everyone thinks meeting someone and coressponding with someone jus because you met them on the internet that he has to be a perv or dangerous , there are plenty of ways to meet guys in your own town that is much more dangerous and you would be alone with them much faster so i think this is fine especially after monthes of talks and getting a feel for who this person is
• Philippines
5 Dec 06
Hello, I think there are things happening in our lives that comes unexpectedly. Sometimes we feel surprise and sometimes we grab opportunities in hurry. And the truth is we have freedom in life to make decisions. But if we have the chance to choose, wisely we have to choose good. At the age of 22 you are matured enough making decisions and knowing that you have consulted your parents about the guy and he is willing to meet your family so it's to you. But be careful going with somebody you didn't know and not enough to be trusted.
• Philippines
5 Dec 06
It's your choice to go or not, but you should know him more for your safetiness, i am not scaring you but for your own concerns and happiness.It's nice to celebrate christmas with the one you love .
• India
5 Dec 06
computer - it is not possible to get away from this.
dear,you have decided,whatever you do once decided do not look back,wheather right or wrong do it with full confidence,never giveup.try to enjoy and spend more time with him.make him happy and have a feel about him and take the future decission.all the best.
@mashimaro (1094)
• Philippines
5 Dec 06
its very scary but its up to you to decide..maybe you can join him with your relatives or friends also. just think of it a million times it is too risky!
@rubypatson (1842)
• India
5 Dec 06
Its too short a time to know someone over the internet, have you met him before, anyway i feel you need to give this relationship some time as you are just getting to know each other over the internet, then when you are really really sure then you can think of the vacation, he might turn to be a very nice person but just to be on the safe side, be careful