What do you think of people that whine a lot?

United States
December 4, 2006 6:45pm CST
I kind of listen to a lot of people's problems. Everyone around me seem to like to tell me thier problems. I think I'm a good listener. I don't necesarily give out advice but I guess they feel comforted when I listen.
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emisle
@emisle (3822)
• Ireland
5 Dec 06
I'm a good listener too, but i'm also an optimist and I would really hate to be a councellor because I'd more than likely get VERY frustrated with some of my patients! Some people will go out of their way to find something to moan about.
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sweetpea_216
@sweetpea_216 (1470)
• United States
15 Dec 06
I know that it can be a draining job. To listen to everyone's problem and try to guide them to a decision that is wise. Wow! Who would listen to you at the end of the day.
Justme2007
@Justme2007 (1848)
• United States
5 Dec 06
after they tell me the story over and over again I try to ignor them because you can tell them an answer and they will ask you the same question over and over again
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sweetpea_216
@sweetpea_216 (1470)
• United States
15 Dec 06
Yup. I mean, if I listened to you the least you could do is listen to some of what I've said!
Casey Heinzism
@dnatureofdtrain (5273)
• Janesville, Wisconsin
5 Dec 06
Well, I think oh boy they need some serious attention, and I try to steer them into better ways of getting attention, but if the whining is needing serious healing I do my best to help them heal, and even sooth themselves if I can. I do too, they pressure me into a little advice here and there. But listening alone can be the most healing thing.. Whines I'm tired can't sleep! :)... - DNatureofDTrain
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sweetpea_216
@sweetpea_216 (1470)
• United States
15 Dec 06
Ah, a very good response. I agree that listening is key but I wish they would know when to stop. Or at least take in what they have said, even the situation needs to be looked at.
jlara_gtr34
@jlara_gtr34 (3491)
• Philippines
23 May 07
hello there. you know, i am one of those people who whine a lot.. lolz. :) i am trying to keep my whining at bay, but it just seems to get worse when im having my pms blues. well, i really get annoyed when someone keeps whining so i guess im pretty much annoying too. i would like to stop being a whiner because i know that would just keep people from unliking me. lolz. :)