Getting Along

I think they must b having some trouble coping up with each other cause they feel sometimes one is getting more love than the other. Love them equally.

Are one of these cats a new cat? If so, then the older one is just probably just establishing her dominance toward the younger one. I have 17 cats and my oldest female is mean to all of the other cats. Most of them have learned to live by her rules and she's ok with them now. Some of the more aggressive one's however, refuse to live by her rules and get attacked regularly as a result. She doesn't allow them to come within a certain distance of her, unless it is she that approaches them and they must not make eye contact with her. It's very obvious after you watch her, what is going on. LOL. Anyway, if this is a new situation, I'd say to just sit back and let them work things out.