Cousin husband has no libido, She is young and he is 50's?

@succed (879)
United States
December 4, 2006 10:11pm CST
How can you help your cousin's when her husband can not give her pleasure? They are very succesful in business, but she is deprived of making love with her husband. Husband excuses tired, they have not making love of over a year. Should she leave him and find her a guy who would gibe her love and attention? What can you say about this?
2 responses
@tanujarneja (2833)
• India
5 Dec 06
She should talk to him clearly of how and why she is suffering.........She has rights over him to ask all this. Moreover she should make him understand that business is important but making love to your life partner is more important................If he is earning more and more everyday and not keeping her happy what for he is earning then??? what will he do with the money and business when whe will not be there for him? He will surely understand this and give time to her........
@succed (879)
• United States
5 Dec 06
You are very right on this. But she is afraid of living him because they have kids together. She has been trying to talk to him, they even go to marriage counselor that does not work at all.
@cherhost (1073)
• United States
5 Dec 06
oh my... maybe they should go see a marriage counsler. there are plenty of days when i do not want to and i figured it out... it is when my husband does things that make me feel crappy. and i just thought to myself maybe i do not love him anymore... so i am going to get some help myself to make sure that i can do all i can do to help ourselves out.
@succed (879)
• United States
5 Dec 06
but the problem is, Why in the world he would play himself when he's got a young a beautiful wife. Wife caught hime playing himself.