are you a good adviser?
By the_dutchess
@the_dutchess (2610)
Philippines
27 responses
@princessgracie (98)
• Philippines
4 Jan 07
maybe..i usually explain to them every situation that they have..i try not to be bias in case that thhat person is involve about some ramblings in life..what i really have to do is to put myself in both sides..
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@RAMPersona (2033)
• Philippines
28 Dec 06
i try to use comforting words, but i guess that doesn't make me a good adviser.
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@the_dutchess (2610)
• Philippines
20 Jan 07
why you can't voice it out? you gotta work on that man. anyway, thanks for posting!
@brendalee (6082)
• United States
5 Dec 06
I try to do the best I can. Most of my friends come to me when they have a problem because they know I will listen to them and not judge them. I have experienced a lot in my life so I find it easy to relate to others problems.
@the_dutchess (2610)
• Philippines
5 Dec 06
it's weird but i can feel that you're really a good adviser.. hope you'll have time if i ask for a bit of advice when i have problems.
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@the_dutchess (2610)
• Philippines
5 Dec 06
thanks a lot! i gotta go! thanks for posting my good friend!
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@wanna_be (411)
• Philippines
12 Jan 07
I don't know if I advise well but I give my side when someone ask for an advise. I will just tell him that the last decision is still his own since he will be the one responsible for it and it is up to him if he will consider what I told him or not.
@lilmeowsy (685)
• Philippines
18 Jan 07
My friends and most of the people that I know say that I do give good advices. I like listening to people's problems. I do my best to console and comfort them by doing so. If I know what to do about his or her problem then I would be able to give a good advice to him or her but if I don't know anything about it then it would be hard for me to do so. I just do my best! ^^
@craving4more (332)
• Philippines
5 Jan 07
I can't be certain if I really am a good adviser, if there's even any way of telling. It's kinda hard to tell if any one would be good at giving advises, since it's up to the one asking for advises if they think those advises were any good. As far as giving advises is concerned though, whenever someone asks for one, I usually help that person look at the pros and cons of whatever situation they have gotten themselves in, that way I'm helping that person help him/herself.
@purplehaze (661)
• Philippines
18 Jan 07
i always try my best..although sometimes i cant express my thoughts clearly or in an organized manner but i always make sure that i dont give biased advise. They are usually based from experience or what i have leraned over the years.
@lossforredwords (3619)
• Philippines
19 Dec 06
im more of a listener than adviser. but if i have some views and idea that would make the situation much better i tell it.. i like to see frst the whole situation... like they say see and think outside the box.. i do advice somtimes but in a nuetral way.. idont advice someone just to make him feel good.. i will really tell what i see with the problem even if it hurts...
@katcarneo (1433)
• Philippines
4 Jan 07
when i do talk the other person really listenscarefully and more often than not agrees so i guess it's safe to say i am a good adviser. i think it's mostly because when i talk to people i always leave them with choices.
@whacks (774)
• Philippines
15 Dec 06
It depends upon what the problem is. If I am well versed with the situation, of course, I can give the appropriate advice. But if it's strange to me, may be I can just say a little.
Do you want my advice? Let's just try to solve whatever problem you have if that's the case.
@the_dutchess (2610)
• Philippines
15 Dec 06
thanks! i'll confide to you if i need. thanks for posting! ^^
@emjehe89 (286)
• Australia
21 Dec 06
i always do the best i can, and i try and only give advice if i think i know what to say and it would be helpful..i think i can give advice better to my friends and family than strangers but i always try and give an honest open opinion..



















