does it matters if a young man marries an elder women??

December 5, 2006 5:24am CST
many ppl do u accept it or reject it? and why?
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7 responses
@lilmissy (481)
• United States
5 Dec 06
i tried to make a similar discussion unfortunately hardly anyone well in my case no one answered but my mother wants to remarry guy i introduced to her ,actually i had wanted to date a guy 6 years older than myself and lost interest in him after a wekk or to but he and my mother got on great they talked all the time and she wanted me to date him ,kept asking me for several monthes telling what a great guy he is and how much fun they have talking for hours and that she wanted me to fall in love with someone she would like and wouldnt think was stealing me aay from her , i said why dont you guys date and now they have been dateing a year problem is his parents still thinkhe is dateing me and want him to marry and they dont know that he is dateing my mother who is 15 years older than him but he really loves her too i think but he loves his family and so it is very difficult and my mother has 3 children nd cant have anymore so his prents may object because of that as they couldnt have any children nd he was adopted so they were looking forward to him haveing lots of kids.anyway i am all for it!
@rusty2rusty (6758)
• Defiance, Ohio
5 Dec 06
To be honest. It doe snot bother me. My grandfather is 75 yrs old. He is married to a lady that is younger than most of his kids. She would be in her fourties. But a lovely lady. My sister is 36 and living with the father of her last child. He is 22 yrs old. As long as the people are of legal age....more along the line of old enough to get in a bar...21 and over...I have no problem with whomever anyone dates. Or what their ages are.
@chiyosan (30213)
• Philippines
5 Dec 06
neither. it is up to them if they decide to. i guess 3-5 years difference in age won't matter that much to these couples who do get married. the guy just nees to catch up with the lady in terms of emotional maturity i guess.
@mee_j3 (103)
• India
5 Dec 06
Its all about understanding and love So it merely matters what the age is .bt both shud be well understanding
@mazingerz (394)
• Hong Kong
5 Dec 06
I don't it's a problem if you really love her then no matter she is elder than you, you still marry her, is that right? IF not, how come you will stay with her and it really depends on yourself and your mind-thinking.
• Pakistan
5 Dec 06
i think its not bed bcoz this question is depend ur future thats it true and false depend 4 u hmm but its not gud i think man elder and women must be young :)
@platypus (334)
• Italy
5 Dec 06
there are many young girls that marry elder ( and rich...) men, so what is the problem? if they are happy in this way... personally speaking, i don't like this kind of things. i thin that everyone should marry someone of the same age, otherwise one will become the nun of the other. this is not beautiful and it can be exausting. but we are ina free world...