What time do you think a child aged 10 should go to bed

September 16, 2006 6:07pm CST
my daughter argues with me because i send her at 7.30 are we sending her too early.
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@oriental (1050)
• Uruguay
26 Sep 06
My son is 7 years old. He goes to bed at 21.30 and nearly immediatly falls asleep. He wakes up at 6.45 in the morning.
@oriental (1050)
• Uruguay
9 Oct 06
No, I am not military. Here in South America it is quiet common to say either 9.30 in the evening or 2l.30. TV programmation, as an example, always appears this way: 19,00, 19.30, 20.00, etc.
@acdc0805 (979)
• United States
9 Oct 06
I'm not military, but my cell phone is set on military time, has been for years and years, I think i just prefer it better, but i am pretty good about convertin it for other people, who may not know...what it is! LOL!
• United States
9 Oct 06
21.30, are you military or something?
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• United States
17 Sep 06
I think that is a bit too early - BUT it all depends on the child. You know better than anyone how much sleep she needs. Some children need much more sleep than others. My sister is 11 and goes to bed at 9-9:30pm and is fine when she wakes up at 7:30am - BUT my cousin is 10 and she goes to bed at 8pm and still has trouble waking up at 8am. Children need alot of activity during the day to assure a good nights sleep. If you are going to change her routine do it slowly - 30 minute intervals - but I'm sure you know that already! lol.. Just my thoughts!
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@HemaSrini (435)
• India
10 Oct 06
Yes, you are sending her too early according to Science. It is told in Physical Education that 3 to 3 1/2 hours before sleep we have to take our food at all times including night times. As there are two reasons: 1. The food will become energy only after 3 hours. When we are sleeping this energy will get converted into fat. And might give raise to other complications. 2. After the sunset the digestion power gets reduced not only in her but in all human beings. So, its better to have food within 7:30pm. And if you are feeding your child only by 7pm then she should sleep only by 10pm. But she can be put on her bed by 9pm as she is very small and would have got used to sleep at 7:30pm. And that two hours she can study or play or go for a walk. But its enough if she has a sound sleep from 10pm to 6am.
• United States
10 Oct 06
Wow thats a very educated & great answer!
• United States
10 Oct 06
I allow my 10 year old son to stay up until 9:00 this seems to work for him, come that time he usually goes right to sleep and when its time for him to get up in the morning a lot of times he gets right up on his own, the rest of the time I just have to say his name and he wakes right up. If you consider allowing her to stay up a little later I would just gradually increase how long she can stay up, say starting with a half hour later, you will know if she isnt getting enough sleep if she starts having trouble getting up in the morning or gets crabby etc. if letting her stay up a little later you can always put the bedtime back to the regular bedtime.
• United States
10 Oct 06
that was supoosed to say if letting her stay up later doesnt seem to be working well you can always put the bedtime back to the regular time. (missed a few words there)
@catchsharad (1326)
• India
15 Oct 06
It should be at 9. and she/he should get atleast 9-10 hours of sleep.
@t33na01 (136)
• United States
15 Oct 06
I think no later than 9.. it depends on what time she wakes up.
9 Jan 07
my litlle borther is only 8 and he doesnt go to bed untill 9 or 10pm although u mite think this is a little late , but i think 7.30pm is too early to be sendin your child to bed at.. but the choice is up to u, as her parent. Good luk .
9 Jan 07
i ment to say brother** lol
@sedel1027 (17846)
• Cupertino, California
17 Sep 06
That does seem a bit too early. I would say the earliest would be 8:30. 9-9:30 is probably a better suited time, but it depends on your child. I would base the time on what she can handle. For exmaple, my 7 yr old can go to bed at 9:30pm and get up at 7:45 for school no problem, but we usually put him to bed at 8:30 on a school night.
• India
10 Oct 06
good
@ehans2 (309)
• United States
17 Sep 06
IT SHOULD DEPEND ON HOW THE KID IS THE LATEST I WOULD SAY WOULD BE 8.30 ISH
• United States
9 Oct 06
my children go to bed at nine on school nights and they get to go to bed later on the weekends but on the days they have school they get up just fine but everyone is different try bumping up her time a bit and see how she does. I don't think it would hurt just to try.
• Philippines
9 Nov 06
I have a friend who has 4 kids. When she's out of town, I usually take care of her kids. They normally sleep at 8:30-9:00pm. This gives them time to do their homeworks and do a little stuff they want to do. By 9:00pm, it's lights off already.
• United States
6 Nov 06
My daughter usually goes to bed around 9:00. She is 11, but has been going to bed at this time for several years now. It might depend on how early she has to get up and how much sleep she needs.
• India
25 Nov 06
8:30 would b ideal
• United States
5 Nov 06
wow that is early i say 9:30 for a ten year old
9 Nov 06
My 10 yr old goes to bed at 10:00 pm.Thats what time i went to bed at 10
@soldenski (2503)
• United States
9 Jan 07
My son who is five, goes to bed at 8:30pm on school night's, on Friday and Saturday, I let him stay up as late as he want's, which is usually at 9:00 lol. He wakes up at 7:00am Monday through Friday, and again on Saturday and Sunday whenever he want's to.
@hariharan23 (1075)
• India
5 Nov 06
ya 7.30 is early i think, you should send her after 8.30.
@usmcsgtwife (4997)
• United States
5 Nov 06
I think 7 30 if very early for a 10 year old.. My daughter is 8 and her bed time is 8 00, light out by 9 00.. my step son is 10 and his is 8 30 light out by 9 00
@suzieque (2334)
• Canada
5 Nov 06
As someone stated earlier, it really depends on the child. Some need more sleep than other. But your children should have a good 8 hours sleep. But I do think 7:30 is too early.
@nichjake (523)
• United States
5 Nov 06
My bedtime was 9 when I was that age.
• United States
5 Nov 06
8:30-9:00 depending on if she rides the bus or you take her to school.
• Mexico
5 Nov 06
I think 8.30 would be a good time and lights out by around 9pm or 9.20pm. It is important for children to have a full night sleep. However as they get older and see their friends staying up later and what not they tend to argue with these kind of issues. For non school days like friday night and saturday let them stay up a little longer.