If you have an aunt who humililiated you,how are you going to forgive her?

Sometimes there are people like her, that no matter how nice you are to them, pay them back when you owe them something and then sometimes more, and just is always upset or wanting everyone to Love and feel Sorry for them, it makes you wonder where Society as a whole failed everyone as well. Just wonder what it still will take as well.

I think that I would first get out of her house. I wouldn't want to stand up to someone whom I'm dependent on - she might end up throwing me off the street and I wouldn't have anything to say against that since it's HER house. Then when I'm all good, I'll tell her politely that she has treated me wrong and that she has humiliated me by shouting at me when I didn't do anything against her. Once I've gotten all of that from my chest, I'd feel better :) Then I'd be more likely to forgive her. Thanks for the response on my discussion!

just ignore your aunt.. and greet her in christmas... and smile

I dont really care about her is my aunt is like that. I can forgive of course. but in the first place i would not allow her to humiliate me. Besides I will never live with my aunt. I am alwys indepndent and have no plans of doing that.Maybe what you can do is to get out from her place and forget about what she did. Afterall we have to forgive inorder to have peace of mind.

is your aunt is a single?if she is a single she is jelous with your life thats why she is like that.maybe too much concern about but you dont care or not lesting to her.so try to ignore her maybe she will stop doing it.