Signs of Cheating

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At first, your feeling is probably the most important indicator that something is happening. Why do you have the feeling? You have the feeling because you start seeing things you never saw before until something in your mind start telling you very softly… Is there someone else? Is he/she cheating on me? And most of the time you know the answer in advance… but you need probes. SIGNS: -starts spending more money or time than usual on clothes and on her/his appearance in general. -has a cell phone you don’t know and especially if the bill arrives any other place -stops trusting you her/his worries and problems.but your house. -She/he stops complaining about things you don’t do that you know she/he always have complained about. -You feel her more distant and cold every day. -He/she starts working overtime more often than usual and he is not at his office when you call. -He/she does not answer his cell phone often and he tells you that it was turned on all the time. He/she tells you that he doesn’t know what happened. The first part of the job has to be done within you. You have to convince yourself that you are not in any way the reason of his betrayal. He/she failed, not you. He/she is a cheater, not you. Be careful, when you confront him/her. He/she will play the role of being much resented because you have doubts about him/her. Don’t fall into his game.