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@cuddiluk (1523)
Philippines
December 7, 2006 7:23am CST
Is it hard to become parents?
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11 responses
• United States
7 Dec 06
I want kids but my husband doesnt want any yet. he feels we are too young, he will be 25 next year and ill be 20. i dont want to be an old mom. But i understand what comes with a child. We are finacialy ready and probably not ready mantally either. when the time is right it will happen.
@Dolcerina (3376)
• Hungary
7 Dec 06
I think you are really young both.
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@cuddiluk (1523)
• Philippines
9 Dec 06
Im experiencing it now. Its quite hard, but exciting. Thanks for the response.
@Dolcerina (3376)
• Hungary
7 Dec 06
I think you are really young both.
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@parlink (184)
• Romania
7 Dec 06
I think it is not so hard. Try to see and get your own experience
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@cuddiluk (1523)
• Philippines
9 Dec 06
thanks for the response.
@hinaomar (1425)
• Pakistan
7 Dec 06
yes its very hard to become parents because after that you have to be very responsible and i think it itself is a very hard thing.to grow up your child is a very hard thing.but its is also good to have children.
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@tanujarneja (2829)
• India
7 Dec 06
IT IS NOT SO HARD TO GET MARRIED TO SOME IF YOU HAVE SOME TO LOVE.
@cuddiluk (1523)
• Philippines
9 Dec 06
Thanks for the response. I find hard now that Im a parent with my two kids.
@viking888 (390)
• Philippines
9 Dec 06
Married Life is fun and enjoyable. A partner in life is always a necessity in this lonely world. AS they say, no one is an island. It is hard being parents to children who does not love you back. Sometimes one finds that the love you offer your children is not returned and you keep thinking what you are doing wrong. This is the difficult part.
@cuddiluk (1523)
• Philippines
9 Dec 06
Yah, that what I'm afraid too when my two kiddos won't love me back when I get old. But at this moment, I want to give all the best thing for them to make them happy. Thanks for the response.
@Dolcerina (3376)
• Hungary
7 Dec 06
No, but complicated. But Hard is to be married! It is easy to make yourself understood with your children, and it is easy to understand them, because they are just like you. Your mirrorimages. They are thinking -just like you are thinking. Because you teach them from the begining for everything. And you must never forget about it. If you are unpatient they will be same, if you are curious they will be the same. Many parents forget about it, and complaining that their children unpatient, or bad, or the kids lie...and so on. The children are from the parents. (But you and your husband are two different personality, and it is not easy to understand each other sometimes.) The parents teach their children differently. That is why sometimes it is simplier to stay with a child without the father.
@cuddiluk (1523)
• Philippines
9 Dec 06
Its true until now im still adjusting with our different behavior. But I love him and much more to our 2 kiddos. To earn to raise is difficult too. Thanks for the response.
• India
9 Dec 06
No just 5 minuts work to become parents. U and ur husband has to do hard work.
@msqtech (15074)
• United States
7 Dec 06
no it is hare to be a good one though you must work at it diligently
@cooky28 (739)
• Australia
8 Dec 06
no its easy just read the story about the birds and the bees and you will find it is easy
• China
9 Dec 06
Yes, it's really hard to be parents. The most difficult thing is how to balance my work and my family. I have found it difficult to educate my son.
13 Jun 07
Being a parent has been great but very different for me. I am 21 years old and I would have never guess that I would be a wife and a mother at this age. I don't think it is hard to be a become a parent.