should i gave her 2nd chance?

Philippines
December 7, 2006 9:43am CST
I got this childhood friend,we were very close until i moved to the city for some oppurtunity.We hardly talk until one day she called me and asked me if i can help her coz she need a job.I had a restaurant so i hired her..i`ve been so nice to her and even my boyfriend who happened to be my partner on that business.i trust her but she betrayed me.she was making rumors and intrigues `bout me and she told it to all the staffs on my restaurant...i fired her..we never talk for quite sometime.then i received text from her saying sorry..shes asking for a 2nd chance and asking me to help her again..what should i do?
6 responses
@SACH4ISHA (1163)
• India
7 Dec 06
hen - hen
i don't think so that you need to give her a 2 nd chance she did so much wrong with you and still you are thinking about giving her asecond chance you must be a good person inside to think like that
• Philippines
7 Dec 06
well am a good person i guess =))..thanks for the response.
@gotcho0O (1257)
• United States
9 Dec 06
No!!! tsk.. She betrayed you once, don't let her to hurt you again. See? You've seen the real her already.
@gotcho0O (1257)
• United States
11 Dec 06
Love ya ^_~
• Philippines
10 Dec 06
Thanks=)
@lawliiet (99)
• Taiwan
7 Dec 06
I personally wouldn't. What she's done to your is ungrateful, and from what you've described, what she's saying sounds fake. Don't let her apology get to you, there are some things that a simple 'sorry' can't fix. I wouldn't help her again. You could have a little contact with her on friendly terms.
• Philippines
7 Dec 06
thank you for that great advice...=))
• Philippines
7 Dec 06
depends on you on how deep the pain it caused you. personally i think you should give her a chance. but of course theres limit to. maybe you can help her find a job but not in your company. and better yet ellher that you may help her find anothre job still she have to earn it. people make mistakes no one is perfect, sometimes we can do the same mistake again that why forgiveness was invented. just set more limitation. i hope this help you,
• Philippines
7 Dec 06
for me what done is done but its hard to trust again...thank you!your words are big help!!
• India
10 Dec 06
beauty, hope - ...
well... u shud give her a second chance but stay a bit cautious atleast for your friend's sake and ur friendship... u can owe her this much...
• Philippines
10 Dec 06
thanks!
• India
10 Dec 06
DON'T GIVE HER A CHANCE