will you love someone who is already taken?

Philippines
December 7, 2006 10:27pm CST
will you love someone who is already taken? i mean, someone who is married for example but you feel he loves you as much as you love him...he promised to love you beyond forever...
6 responses
@kokopelli (4842)
• United States
17 Jan 09
get out of that situation as soon as you can, believe me, the longer you stay in that relationship, the more hurt you will be. i know it would be very difficult to do this specially if you already have a strong feeling toward the person, but do this for the sake of YOU. if he leaves his wife because of you, will that make you happy? if he can do it to his wife, don't you think he won't do the same to you? wake up lady! i'm sure you know the answers, you're just not willing to accept them. yes, we cannot control our emotions, but we can always control our reactions. be kind to yourself, you deserve someone better, and the choice is always yours.
• India
17 Jan 09
honestly...no never!totally incorrect and moraly wrong.
@polachicago (18716)
• United States
8 Dec 06
Never....I would never take someone husband or boyfriend...bla, bla...they always promise...
@khathorxe (333)
• Philippines
8 Dec 06
i dont think so..i dont wanna be a home wrecker.
@yanzalong (18984)
• Indonesia
17 Jan 09
This is a difficult question to answer for me. Frankly, when we see a beautiful girl, we normally say to ourselves: "Ah, she is very beautiful. How lucky I am to have her, etc, etc. The next thing if you see her more often, you will probably try to be closer to her. And if there is a positive response from her, you will be even closer and closer to her regardless of whether she is already taken or not yet. So, whether or not I will love someone who is already taken will depend on your judgement regarding risk of loving someone who is married. Some care, some others don't.
• Philippines
16 Jan 09
well it's so hard to think about that.but when you're in the scenario you would probably say that yes i might love someone who is already taken but i dont agree that he would give you a more love that last forever..it wont happen..lovong som1 who is taken is very risky..