what will u do if u come to know that ur girlfriend is an escort?

Canada
December 8, 2006 8:55am CST
what will u do if u come to know that ur girlfriend is an escort?
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• United States
19 Aug 07
Well it happened to me, I found it to be quite a trip of self-discovery, so, I'll share the experience. First, there is a mountain of obvious reasons why she did not want to*ever* admit that she was doing tricks, including, surprise, she did not want to lose me. For this reason, I had to endure a mountain of coverups on top of the mountain of lies. I stopped pointing out the contradictions just out of mercy. I was surprised I actually did not feel jealous, rather I had an immense compassion for her. I ended up with a bag of unaswered questions, such as, when did she start, learn, how, why ...*why*... she had very little money but the more I look at it the less ..I don't know .. The other feelings I had, I do not wish on anyone. Keep in mind, there is*affection* involved, not just judgement.. In the end, I had to decide whether I wanted to continue the relationship keeping mum about all this (she had actually stopped) or talk about it. I am romantic, I believe in sharing all truths (ironically, so did she..). So I tried to give her hints. But I could not bear watching her blanche every time she had this thought that I may have guessed something. In the end, I did not have the courage to "confront" her, so I left her to her contradictions...