Why do ex's have to come back when you're over them

United States
December 8, 2006 2:44pm CST
I just don't understand coz it always happen to me. Everytime I'm over with my ex-bf and find someone new they always come back and make you feel really special. that sometimes, you wanna fall for them.I get so confused but at the end of the journey i end up with someone, but sometimes, i get the wrong picked. I never regret anything, though. I make mistakes but i know it has a meaning...i just hope at the very end, i end up with someone i deserve and who deserves me...
3 responses
@Aali311 (6125)
• United States
8 Dec 06
i think any ex comes back become they know they cant have you and people always want what they cant have and to you with someone else is painful for them they might have broke your heart of you might have broke theres but theres always feeling there no matter what and they try to make you feel special because they want you back and making you feel important is gonna give them a better chance at that no one wants to be forgotten right.
• United States
8 Dec 06
thats the thing they made me feel so important and i see myself falling for that crop. it sucks
@mfrancq (1808)
• United States
8 Dec 06
I went through this a lot before I get married. I think what it is, is that when you aren't over them then you don't seem like a challenge. However, when you get over them they see you don't care anymore and it becomes a challenge. You know, the whole "I want what I can't have" thing.
• United States
8 Dec 06
its hard coz at the end of the relationship i always think im over him, but when he seems to be interested again eventhough im very much in love with the present i see myself fallin for my ex again and it sucks...i hate this feeling..dis is like the worst feeling ever
@nuel_h (1593)
• Indonesia
8 Dec 06
i think the law of seduction and its basically karma, i think. its just the " neighboor grass greener" thing. u get over with ur ex and come back tu our man.