I need Freinds.
By speeddevilx
@speeddevilx (76)
United States
December 8, 2006 5:31pm CST
my life aint really good kuss my gf broke up with me
my parents are mean to me
and my freinds moms dont like me kuss im in a wheelchair..
WHat do i do?
4 responses
@dixielol (1579)
• United States
10 Dec 06
That is sad. People can be so arogent & narrow minded. It suprises me that your friends moms dont like you cause you are in a wheelchair, most parents would be more grown up then that. Could there be another reason that they dont like you? In any case, I agree with joyfullone, dont let em get ya down.
@JoyfulOne (6231)
• United States
9 Dec 06
Hi speeddevilx! Welcome to myLot. I think you'll find a lot of really neat people here, and I hope you'll enjoy getting into the discussions. Sorry to hear that your girlfriend broke up with you, and that you think your parents don't treat you well, that's never any fun. It's hard to handle when you feel like you're being hit on from all sides, I know. Please keep your chin up though, show them what a good person you really are. I've heard it said many times that the best revenge is living well. I believe that to be true. I myself, am recently divorced, so I can relate to losing someone I cared about. As far as people who don't like you because you're in a wheelchair...if they're that way, then you don't need them in your life anyways as they don't know the real you. Sometime, somewhere, you WILL find a special person who will treat you like you should be treated, with love, and respect. To take your mind off things, work on your website I see you have listed here. Build it up to something really great, and shows the real side of you. Here's wishing you a much better tomorrow!
@cripfemme (7698)
• United States
24 Jan 07
I'm in a wheelchair,too. I have lots of friends. What are your hobbies. Join a group of people with familiar interests, chances are they won't care about your disability. It might also serve you to join a disability peer support group, as it seems like your having a bit of trouble with disability issues. You can also feel free to email me if I can help.
@mikester (114)
• New Zealand
28 Mar 07
It is deplorable how people tend to be nasty to the unfortunate. Do not let them grind you down. Develop mental toughness. Remember that you are a valuable person. You do not deserve such ill treatment, but remember that a lot of the reponsibility is with the victim. You must learn to not be a victim anymore.
I suggest that you do a whole lotta inviting here at Mylot. After all, you cant sit around waiting for people to approach you. You must take the assertive stance and invite people to be your friend! I invite at least one hundred people every day.
Another thing you can do to broaden your list of friends and contacts is to check out other online communities.
AdlandPro is one that I use, and is good for my business too:
http://www.adlandpro.com/default.aspx?rep=117119
I have 1000 friends at AdlandPro and making more and more every day. it is good to participate in the forums with them. We discuss all sorts of topics, and AdlandPro is one of the ways I get traffic to my business Web site.
I hope everything works out teriffic for you.
Never give up!





