right person for you

December 9, 2006 1:42am CST
I wanted to share my ideas about "How does one find the right person?" When you look for the right person, don't look for someone with all the qualities you desire. The probability of finding such a person is low, unless you commit a major part of your life to the search. (If you do that, other aspects of your life may suffer, making you a less desirable person.) Look for someone who shows the potential of someone willing and able to build a lasting, happy relationship. Look for someone who has commitment. If you are both the types who will and continue to work hard to make it work, the chances are that you won't have to work too hard. Plan your life around long term goals. Before you start seriously dating someone, think if they are the right person for you in the long term. Discussion is open for you all.
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• United States
9 Dec 06
I didnt find the right person. I had been married to a man for about 6 years and the marriage didnt work. We split up and I dated off and on. I didnt find the right guy, so I stopped dating I decided it was time for me to be alone and be happy with it. I stopped looking for "my right" and one day he found me! :] its been great ever since!