why are people sarcastic towards long distance relationships?

@maryannemax (12156)
Sweden
December 9, 2006 8:12am CST
i have a boyfriend who lives so far from me. i am from the philippines and he lives in sweden. we met once already and shared 2 weeks together. we are inlove. we are gonna soon celebrate our 8 months together in the relationship. why do most people think negatively about people having relationships with oceans apart? i do believe nothing is impossible when it comes to love.
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7 responses
@tammytwo (4298)
• United States
31 Mar 07
I think because this type of thing makes it easier for both people to cheat without the other knowing.
@maryannemax (12156)
• Sweden
1 Apr 07
actually, cheating is always easy whether you're in a long distance relationship or in real life especially if one is really into cheating. it's on how we respect our partners and it's on how we stay loyal to them.
@kokopelli (4842)
• United States
27 Feb 07
hehe, never mind those envious people, don't let them take away your joy at any time. when you're losing optimism, just remember pinay kokopelli who's been in a LDR, made it thru, and now happily married with her loving american hubby :)
@maryannemax (12156)
• Sweden
1 Apr 07
thank you so much for that positive push! you're so nice and i am happy to know that you are having a happy life with your husband.
@xtinelee (3371)
• Singapore
9 Dec 06
Not sarcastic but it takes alot of work physically, mentally, and financially to keep it going on, and it's quite impossible for people with no financial ability to step into a long distance relationship. My friend was in a long distance r/s with her boyfriend, but they eventually broke up 5 years later.. but it wasn't because of the long distance I think.
@maryannemax (12156)
• Sweden
9 Dec 06
yep. it needs hard work and more time and too much effort. but i do believe ours is worth it. and thanks for the advice... it's necessary to have good financial ability to keep the connection better everyday.
@leanette (3002)
• India
1 Apr 07
I had a bf who was with me for a year, and then he had to go back to Australia, but we kept in touch over the phone and mail for another year, but in the end I thought its really not gonna work out so I dumped him. I wasn't pessimistic about a long distance relationship, but we had a long way before we'd have finished our education and gotten together..plus he was kinda beefin with other gals there, so I did what was best for me. On a general note, long distance relationships have worked for some people and from your pictures, you both seem to be so much in love, am sure it'd work for you! :) All the best!
• Philippines
29 Mar 07
The trouble with long distance relationships lie in the difficulty of pulling through with them. In the first place, it's either you have met shortly somewhere or, it could be that a friend had simply introduced one to the other by mail or the internet, or it could be that you met through the internet. Then everything after that will be left greatly to the internet, the mail or phone calls. How then can the relationship go any deeper? For the couple to know each other better, either one visits the other or that they meet at a common place from time to time. This is very expensive matter to pursue. Not only in monetary terms but also in terms of time spent. There goes now the main reason for most of the collapse of these relationships. But not all failed. I have known so many who pulled it through till marriage. A lot have become lifetime commitments. If the couple are meant for each other, I don't see any reason why they won't make it. It just simply requires so much more from both parties. More than just the usual patience and love.
@bubuth (1815)
• Philippines
22 Nov 12
I think some people are just over acting in some long distance relationship because they can never survive or they don't know how to handle long distance relationship. Maybe they are just envy, just don't mind what other people say because what important is you love each other so much and no sarcastic reaction can break that love. I'm happy for you and stay beautiful. Happy Mylotting
@yorb24 (2179)
• United States
28 Feb 07
Well it's probably because they haven't been in a long distance relationship themselves OR they were in one where it did not work out. Don't worry too much about it. You need to do what you have to for yourself. If you are happy and in love, and so is your boyfriend, then that's all that matters!