Why Do We Love, And Then Hated Them?

Well the theory is. When you start loving someone you start learning them, understanding them and at one stage of time you feel that you know them very well. But once something goes wrong you start thinking that how it happened when you were so very sure that nothing will go wrong. Well its just the price of epectations you pay. The more you expect the more you get hurted. THanks

We can but it takes a lot of work. That's the way we are suppose to love each other, with a forgiving heart. It's not easy sometimes but if we do it is wonderful.

We love someone and then hate them after we wronged us because we're hurt. They hurt us. I think this is what they call falling out of love. I dunno why this happens. If people are just capable of loving unconditionally then the world could be a better place to live in. But we are not. We choose not to. People always look for something better. When they see trouble coming or when they are already in troubling situation, they look for the exit door. Why? Because in truth, all of us wants to be happy. Nobody wants to be lonely. And putting up with someone who just cause us pain make us lonely. So, we want out. Not that we start hating them, but we just want to be rid of them. That's just it. Some hate after a break up, after a wrong done to them because they're hurting. It's a just a natural response. They're being defensive. Nobody has the right to hurt us so we get angry. Especially if the wrong was done intentionally. Or if the partner is aware that he/she can cause someone to be hurt but still he/she still did it anyway. It's like ignoring somebody else's feelings. It's like adding fuel to the fire.