i need an answear!and help because i am going crazzy!!!
By urzicutza
@urzicutza (1971)
Romania
December 10, 2006 12:11pm CST
well to make a long and verry long story short here it comes!
i am with my boyfriend for 7 months now!in our sort 7 months we have maniged to go tru so much bad things!that i can not emagine!and i can not tell!!!
butt we still togheter and oru love grows every day!we are so stik to each other!and we feal that nothing can stop us!but now a nother problem is showing up!and i rhink is the worst of all!i can not say what is all about but i just say that is terning our heart apart!because it seams somethimes that everything is against us and our love!
sorry for my english
and we love eah other so much!and we are verything to our self!he is my angel and i am his!he is my reason to weakup in the morning adnd i am his!i cry wen i pronunce his name!we love each other so much that we dont know what to do any more!
we thank god that that we manigetd togheter do go tru oll af the sad and bad things and we are still togheter!and wen we finally tought that we went rtu all now here it comes another obstacol!
and i am asking my self!if god made us another obsacol tah we must pas!or it is just soing us that we are not made for each other!
i dont know what to belive any more!
butt one thing i know!that i am the moust happy perosn when i am in his arms!and then nothing alse mathers!
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57 responses
@kishchun (497)
• Oman
11 Dec 06
hey, sorry about the whole thing, i fondly hope you'll be fine.
but, the thing is that if you don't come out with your problem, if you don't tell us what it is, how can we offer help? how can we give you solutions? it might be better if you tell us about it. this way, you will get it out of your system too, it will be a psychological release, a relief.
anyway, wish you good luck.
@scottaragog (10)
• India
11 Dec 06
if you love him so much then ,let any problem come to you face it kill it.Just dont ask how or why because you have not metiond the problem.
@Nahara (1673)
• Israel
11 Dec 06
If u managed to go through all the things that u've been through then nothing and noone can tear u apart this only means that your love is strong and that the two of u meant to be together so good luck to u and i'm so happy to know that there's a growing love so keep it up
@vipul20044 (5794)
• India
11 Dec 06
Well love is all about happiness as well as sorrow
But the best thing is that you share every emotion togather
Dont be sad, as you know problems arent forever
Atleast be happy there are many people who cry cuz they dont have someone in their lives
Atleast you are lucky and so is your boyfriend that you both found each other
Live every day with that
And have a positive attitude
Nothing can do you apart
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@williamruth (120)
• India
11 Dec 06
u my friend got to totally depend on god for he is good
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@krysy1982 (1041)
• United States
10 Dec 06
like people say what doesnt kill you makes you stronger. if you love each other it doesnt matter about anything else
@dlsuchix (35)
• Philippines
11 Dec 06
well....if u r believe you are in the right track, go for it and fight for your love.
@melrosepink (111)
• Philippines
11 Dec 06
I agree with you, same as obstacles can make their relation stronger
@viorelsnake (99)
• Romania
18 Mar 07
Stop beeing so sensitive to what others say. It is your life not them, they don't love you as your boyfriend do. Be more agresive when you protect you belongs, say it in their face, they will live with!
@RaZZvaN (169)
• Romania
9 Jan 07
If its a racial issue than better try and convinc your parents because if you feel you can adjust to different culture go ahead-remeber guy wont have to change for anything.It may bug you later so clear this issue.If its for financial reason then wait till guy gets a decent job and is able to support you.
@lynn3024 (198)
• Canada
15 Jan 07
my husband and i went through alot the first year of our relationship and i did'nt think it was ever going to end. our problem was that people didn't respect our relationship. My family didn't like him and his family didn't like me so we were constantly fighting with someone. In the end everything worked out because we would not let them tear us apart. just remember if you were not meant to be together then you wouldn't be and if you love each other as much as you say you do then everything will work out. don't let troubles come inbetween you. the more you go through together the stronger your relationship will be.
@alisilence03 (85)
• Romania
10 Mar 07
when you are in his arms just do not think about the obstacles just enjoy the moment, if you wonder why God is giving you these obstacles i can tell you that these obstacles are a test for good people.God gives to people hard tryes in life because He wants to see those people will really mentain the love for him and there love for each other even in the most terrible situasions but in a happy end He will give the people who resisted ten times the initial happiness.
This thing is in the Bible, in the story about Iov.Iov it was a rich man bleast by God with all the richess in the world because he was very faithfull to God.so God decided to test Iov and brought him many obstacles so much that Iov has lost almost all his reaches..he and his wife were desperate but they never lost the faith in God.They said is just his whill so in the end God bleast them with the ten time the reaches they had before.
So don't worry, God is there and will remember you!
@jean_rose (415)
• Philippines
11 Mar 07
Every relationship goes through tests and obstacles, my friend. And most of the time, God sends obstacles to test how strong you are together...because you both should face the odds together. If you really love each other, you'll find a way to make things work no matter what.
@mcbota (2125)
• Romania
11 Dec 06
You have to realize one thing:till you are reaching the final line you are going to have obstacles.so in this realtion the final line is to be married and if you go thru this final stage you will see that the obstacles will be no mor of this nature,maybe others but not as strong as till now.Just try to do the final movement and will see the result.Trust God and everything will be great!
@emilylynn2003 (876)
• United States
17 Dec 06
dont give up.. love is not easy .. there are many things people work on .. i felt this way for a while to that if a nother bad thing happens im gone.. but working things out only makes your love stronger.. dont worry there will be many many obsicals to come there has never been an easy love.. at least not with anyone i know .. good luck and if you really feel this way about him then dont even thing about leaving him
@Marie2473 (8512)
• Sweden
11 Dec 06
If your love is strong you will ride out this storm as well. I do belive that if you are ment for eachother nothing can tear you apart. Good luck to you!
@michaellearnstorock (205)
• India
11 Dec 06
I think it is important that you stay together smply cos you have gone through a lot by the looks of it and that means a lot. I know this cos i too went through a lot at some point, but trust me it can only get better as time goes by, cos the more hardships that you got through together the more will your love grow. Hope this helps.
