Do You Have problem with mix up marriage?
By butchi74
@butchi74 (810)
Indonesia
December 11, 2006 7:38am CST
you know,like marriage with different race (Asian and europe, black and white) or even maybe different religion (moslem and christian, Hindu and Budha...or everything else). My opinion is i don't have a problem with that, because when it come to a feeling,people will never look of who they are..that's my opinion, what's yours?
6 responses
@edras_2 (299)
• United States
11 Dec 06
No, I have no problem with it.I'm white American,and have dated 2 black men in the past,and am now married to wonderful,sweet, Mexican man,whom I love dearly. True love does not know color,race or religion,only hearts.Maybe if people followed their hearts more there might be less prejudice in the world and more love.What do you think?
@butchi74 (810)
• Indonesia
13 Dec 06
my friend, i just hope all the people think like you, but we're all now many fight or even war begin with race, religion, and that make me so sad, because we're all human, and we're all have red blood, why we must fight because of color??religion??, that's very wrong ,man
@edras_2 (299)
• United States
13 Dec 06
You are so right,it's VERY wrong to judge people like that.My husband and I are so different from each(he's younger,Mexican,and a Catholic-I'm older,white,and a Baptist!)But we respect each others differences and don't try to change each other,We've been together for 5 yrs. now and our bond is only getting strongerI think if we can do it, the rest of the world could,too.HOW rediculious is a religious WAR,anyway?!
@mary_8810002 (5)
• United States
6 Feb 07
I dont really care but when I was younger I used to wince or feel uncomfortable at the idea of interracial couples. now its just like whatever. It does make me wonder though about this comment my father made. HE claimed that interracial couples dont last as long as regular couples, what do you think?
@ladyheart25 (1815)
• Philippines
11 Dec 06
I dont have any problems with that. I dont care what race i marry as long as he is good and God fearing. I just follow my heart and i will be able to understand and talk about our differences, it wont be any problem in our relationship.
@Marie2473 (8512)
• Sweden
11 Dec 06
My bf is a muslim even though he doesn´t practice the religion that much. But we get along great and sometimes i even see it as a good thing that we come from different backgrounds, religions, countries coz we both can learn so much from the other. the important thing is to remember that u are 2 individuals who love eachother and when it comes to love - it doesn´t matter what colour or race you are - we are all humans and we all love the same way!
@lauczi (962)
• Poland
5 Feb 07
not at all, and i find a guy of other race more attractive than my race. i am white, european blond and catholic and my beloved is brown asian and muslim. we had no problems, except for one that came recently becoz of his friend. and becoz of him my man doesnt want me to eat pork. although none of us will change our minds we just dont talk about this issue, and so we dont have to quarrel. i hope he wont be so much islamic in the future and wont ask me to change my religion, or teach our children to me muslim. im not against his god, but if he can smoke and drink which is against islam then why not stop teaching children being one.
@butchi74 (810)
• Indonesia
11 Feb 07
well, lauczi,i want to ask u something. your man doesn't want u to eat pork right, it's againts his religion, but not in your religion..is that his way to persuade u to follow his religion? i guess if he have no problem with your religion, then he will not forbid u to eat pork right..sorry, i just kind of curious..
@Lush_heidi (994)
• United States
3 Feb 07
as long as two people love each other and have no problems with the others religon/race, it should only be be a matter of love,and whats on the inside. If they truly love each other, they can make it work and overcome any obstacles!
