Love of my life

United States
December 11, 2006 5:52pm CST
I met this guy about 10 years ago. He was my first love. We where each others first kiss. We where together for about 4 years. We broke up because I was young and dumb and cheated on him. Well He moved to florida shortly after that I live in Indiana. I seen him 2 times within 6 years and about 4 months ago He came here for a funeral and I ran into him again. We spent some time together before he went back and exchanged numbers. We talk on average about 2 times a week but latley he has been calling everyday. We have discussed getting back together and giving it another go. For I still feel that I am in love with him. And he has told me that He has never stopped loving me. So here is my question So far yet all he does is talk about moving back here. I have offered to buy him a ticket, I have offered him a position in my fathers company and have offered him a place to stay. He avoided the conversation and didnt call me for about 2 weeks but now he is calling everyday again and talking once again about moving back up here I dont know what to do. I feel alone, I am still madley in love with this man after 10 years but really all it is doing is hurting me because its all talk. Should I stop talking to him or hold a little longer and see what happens. I dont want to lose him again.
2 responses
@findcutegj (1466)
• India
12 Dec 06
I think you need to clear it out with him. Ask him whether he wants to be in relationship with you or not. I tell you what, dont waste your life for any one who doesnt care about your feelings. You can easily find a good decent person who atleast knows how to respect the feelings of his partner. Best of luck!
• United States
11 Dec 06
Tell him that he needs to decide and not to play with your feelings. Say you need to know so you can either move on with or without him in your life