First Love

@sherinek (3321)
United States
December 12, 2006 1:48am CST
Did you marry your first love? If not, what happened. Do you like to discuss?
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15 responses
@rainbow (6762)
12 Dec 06
I was 15 weeks off my wedding when I looked at him and thought - rest of eternity? Ten minutes later I was on my way back home to my parents house. We'd been together from being 13, on and off, and we would have been married just before my 22nd birthday. I just suddenly knew he was not what I wanted, no-one was pleased as I'd paid for nearly everything for the wedding and honeymoon by then - oooops better late than never. Still not married - been with Shrek over 7 years but although we're really good together and have our boys I just don't feel the need to get married. It's like I'd loose my freedom somehow and although I choose to be with him if that choicewas gone I don't know how I'd feel.
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@sherinek (3321)
• United States
13 Dec 06
Hell... You must be very courageous. I really value that. But its true. You have to 100% sure about it before you commit yourself for life. As long as you are happy with your arrangement, I dont see any problem sticking to it. GOod luck and take care.
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@rainbow (6762)
14 Mar 07
Couragous or just stubborn and bad tempered, lol. I used to get passionate about things and believe in my freedom so strongly all those years ago, he just annoyed me and I realised that I couldn't stay with him. I do wonder how it would have been sometimes but I'm sure my life is better with Shrek, lol. Thank-you so much for giving me your best response!
@MySpot (2602)
• United States
16 Mar 07
I sure did! I thought that I was in love with a guy before I met my hubby but once we got together I realized it was only 'puppy love' that I felt for that boy... it was more like a crush. I've been with my husband since High School (1989). I knew from the moment we met that he was the one for me. We were friends, then lovers and now marriage partners, parents of two children and we're still best of friends. I feel blessed ; )
@sherinek (3321)
• United States
19 Mar 07
Congrats. Its very rarely a person get to marry his/her first love. There can be a lot of relationships, but love, i think come in a special way, with a special person. You are indeed a lucky person.
@sbeauty (5869)
• United States
12 Dec 06
No, praise the Lord, I did not. At the time I was totally enamored, but later on I discovered what a total jerk he was and broke up with him. Later I introduced him to a college friend. She tried to break it off after awhile, too, but he stalked her everywhere until she'd take him back again. She finally ended up married to him, poor girl. He had mental problems, for sure.
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@sherinek (3321)
• United States
13 Dec 06
Lucky you. How are they fairing now.
• Philippines
16 Dec 06
my Aldrin - it' sme and my husband
no i didn't married my first love because we broke up he found someone (only a weeks after we broke up. Silly that man)heheheheh...but luckily i have a right man now and im happy with him
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• India
16 Dec 06
I was waited for her for 7 years. However, she wants to be my friend only.
@Tanika (632)
• Australia
16 Dec 06
no i didnt marry my first love for many reasons. mostly that we were so young and i didnt want to be totally commited so young. and because he did everthing his mother said and wore what she wanted and i couldnt handle it. i did marry my second love though. Tanika.
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@SparkyG (357)
• United States
16 Dec 06
Nope, I didn't marry my first love. At the time I wanted to but I guess lucky for me it didn't happen. I met my husband 2 years after me and my first love broke up. The love I have for him is stronger than I ever felt with my first love.
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• Philippines
16 Dec 06
no, i didn't...i just love him and until no i love him too.....i just love him because he's good to me and he's always protecting me.....
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@HerShe (2385)
• Canada
16 Dec 06
Well, there's not very much to discuss. My first love was when I was ten. He wasn't really my first love, it was more of a 'crush'. I was ten and he was eleven, and at night in the summer all the kids on our block would play 'cowboys and indians' and 'British bulldog' in the street 'til dark. There must have been about twelve or so of us. I don't know what it was about him, but I would get a sicky feeling when he was around. I didn't understand what it was back then. I understood later when I met another boy, a minister's son, when I was fourteen, I would get that same feeling when he was around me too. I have no idea where either one of these people are today.
@ru88en (2997)
• Philippines
12 Dec 06
No, because I got my second, third and fourth love.
@sherinek (3321)
• United States
12 Dec 06
Ha haa. Thanks for responding. What happened to your first?
@msqtech (15075)
• United States
12 Dec 06
I waited until I was 12 for girls
@msqtech (15075)
• United States
12 Dec 06
I did not but I was heartbroken when she started seeing guys other than me. She made me angry and sad. But I moved on to find another.
@sherinek (3321)
• United States
13 Dec 06
Its all right. There is no hard and fast rule that you have to marry your first love. Ultimately you have to be happy not sad by any arrangement.
• India
12 Dec 06
After marriage only i started loving my lifepartner. Really that is my first love. And I had a great time with her.
@sherinek (3321)
• United States
13 Dec 06
Good for you. Thanks for responding.
• India
12 Dec 06
first love - first love
i am unmarried, but i wish to marry with my first love. but it is not possible then i well wait to other good girl. this is about me & ur pls tell me about ur love
@sherinek (3321)
• United States
13 Dec 06
Even though I went out with a few, I did not love them. My first true love was my hubby and I love him more and more every day.
@jheLaichie (4438)
• Philippines
30 May 09
well, i ended up with my first love now. after all these years. he is my high school sweethearts and after having 3 boyfriends, we now ended up as lovers. our story is really somewhat nice to hear but i lost track of the events. its all in my head. lol! what i am proud now is that we love each other. thanks my friend. .. jhelai
• Indonesia
12 Dec 06
i get my first love,n i get mariage too with him...