Father in law

@disvachic (10120)
United States
December 12, 2006 11:14am CST
On the radio this morning (103 jamz)a letter was sent by a woman who said her father-n-law is always getting fresh with herand she didn't know whether to tell her husband about it or confront her father-n-law about it.What do u think?
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@vhansen (2029)
• United States
15 Dec 06
I had this happen to me in my last relationship.At first it was just verbal flirting,which I didn't mind.Then it got touchy feely when no one was looking.I'd just smack his hand away.The last straw was when I arrived for the weekly family dinner and no one was there except my father in law.He grabbed me and pinned me on the couch with hands everywhere.I pushed him off telling him I was going to tell.He said go ahead.So I told my hubby who just shurgged it off,saying 'Dad didn't mean nothing by it.'And then my mother in law,who said the exact same thing! From that day forward I made sure I was never near him much less alone.Avoidence may also be your only option.
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@disvachic (10120)
• United States
16 Dec 06
Darn dats kinda messed up tho.Thats very disrespectful.
@Lydia1901 (16353)
• United States
14 Dec 06
I think she should confront him and if that doesn't work, she should tell her husband about it.
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@disvachic (10120)
• United States
15 Dec 06
I think I will tell my husband first
@estarga (1188)
• United States
12 Dec 06
I would probably confront my father in law first and if it didnt stop after that then I would have to take it to my husband. I have come to realize that there are some things about our parents we dont want to hear about from our spouses and in my opinion that's one of them LOL.
@disvachic (10120)
• United States
12 Dec 06
If I was married and that was me I think I would tell my husband because that is very disrespectfull of the father n law.
@disvachic (10120)
• United States
12 Dec 06
and i would have the father n law right there when i tell him
@missyd79 (3438)
• United States
12 Dec 06
I think she should tell her husband and let him handle it. If her husband doesn't do anything about it, then she knows how he really feels about her and then she should refuse to go to his house and if her father in law is at their house, she should make it a point not to be alone with him.
@disvachic (10120)
• United States
12 Dec 06
Yes,I totally agree with you.