Do you think its ok if a girl proposes a boy???????????

@Rashu169 (4391)
India
December 13, 2006 2:33am CST
Well as such its boy who proposes his girl...but my friend plans to propose this guy whom she has been dating for a while..... I was a little taken aback by hearing this as being a girl i would want to be proposed not the other way round....whats your take..it is ok if a girl proposes the boy?????
9 responses
@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
13 Dec 06
yes these days why not, if a girl has the courage to do it I think it is fine, gee but it would take a lot of courage.
@Rashu169 (4391)
• India
13 Dec 06
true... i mean i know that guy wont say no...but then it always looks nice if the boy proposes the gal
• Germany
24 Jan 07
Truly agree with you, but nowadays everyone are equal and there is nothing in gender for expressing thier love, to whom they love. If you love then have the courage to express it also.
@nrmrreddi (356)
• Germany
24 Jan 07
There is no point in being surprised by such a move from this girl. Its the love from her side and she shouls surely express her love for the guy. If she truely loves then its her responsibility to propose with courage and do not have to step back from such situation.
@Rashu169 (4391)
• India
24 Jan 07
ahha...well yeah...anyways since i posted this discussion she has already proposed and now they are to get married in March...
@nishanity (1650)
• India
13 Dec 06
hey its the 21st century.... gals can do anything now,just like men can... if ur pal wants to do it, she can... even i wud prefer a guy to propose to me, instead of the othr way round!!
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@Rashu169 (4391)
• India
13 Dec 06
yeah...that sounds more like a fairy tale
@adnan82 (672)
• Pakistan
13 Dec 06
i dont mind a girl Propose to a guy .. SImple thing is. which is quite understandable..if a girls like some 1. then y .. cant he express her feeeling to that guy . because if she didnt do that.. jusr because. she think i m a girl . i shud not propose a guy . :)..then . how will he get him.
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@Rashu169 (4391)
• India
13 Dec 06
true...but dint always heard the fairy tale that boy proposes girls and lived happy everafter
@tobecca (32)
• India
13 Dec 06
Obviously...Guys these days lack guts in their butts...tht's why Gals these dayz have to take the step before its' too Late. There's nothing to be taken aback by this. cheers
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@Rashu169 (4391)
• India
13 Dec 06
well it was just that i always thought she is the shy kind and now she wants to propose....
@pratew3y (1893)
• India
20 Jan 07
well i dont prefer that since according to me if a girl proposes then she might get caught in the hands of someone who doesnt really want her in his life and he keeps them as granted for sometimes and then leave them
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@Rashu169 (4391)
• India
20 Jan 07
ooh..so u mean chances of her getting hurt is more huh
@wathanjim (2214)
• United States
13 Dec 06
This is fine.If a person feels love they should express it.Why should it matter if the male or the female proposes/We are all equal.
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@Rashu169 (4391)
• India
13 Dec 06
Equality true...yet the picture gets shaken a bit
• Romania
13 Dec 06
it is kind of strange in our country, but if he does not proposes her and she wants him badly? Then why not? maybe not in public, but between them anything is possible!
@Rashu169 (4391)
• India
13 Dec 06
yeah ofcourse....she plans to throw a party on his B'day and then pop the question..........
@deeeky (3667)
• Edinburgh, Scotland
13 Dec 06
Grab the opportunity when you can because sometimes the boy is too shy and embarrised to ask. If you feel the same way and the girl proposes it doesn't matter. Life is too short so it is best to enjoy it as much as possible and get on with life in the nicest possible way. Good luck.
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@Rashu169 (4391)
• India
13 Dec 06
hmmm true..thats there...she might miss the bus......let see what she wanna do