Why do people always want to give advice?

@sharone74 (4837)
United States
December 13, 2006 1:47pm CST
Especially if they are in a more screwed up position with their lives than you are!
4 responses
• United States
13 Jan 07
People see other people in the same position, and they want to give the advice almost as if to say "Don't do what I did! Do the right thing instead!" They give advice out of their own experience doing the exact opposite, but as we all know, it's easier to say than it is to do, so they do one but not the other.
@sharone74 (4837)
• United States
22 Oct 11
People just love to but their noses in and give us the wisdom of their experience. When you don't ask people for it don't you sometimes wish they would just keep their stories and advice to themselves?
• Singapore
15 Dec 06
we are able to give advise to others as we are not emotionally involved in the problems thus can think more clearly. that's why when sometimes when we are stuck in the same problem, we may have to seek advise from others as we cant even think straight.
@sharone74 (4837)
• United States
16 Dec 06
that is a very good answer and one I would accept if it were offered to me by one of my overly helpful friends.
• United States
13 Dec 06
I always wondered that myself..I think its because people don't know how to solve their own issues but insist on thinking they know about yours..its being nosy in my opinion
@sharone74 (4837)
• United States
14 Dec 06
I think it is presumptuous of them at the least. Especially if you didn't ask them for it!
• India
13 Dec 06
i totally disagree with you.you way of thinking is so wrong. people give advice because of many reasons. 1.you told them that you are in problem or you told them you need help. 2.somebody wants you to improve or make you better. 3.you have got problems in you that is visible to everyone. 4.they think you needed one otherwise you are going to get into a probelem. and i gave you this advice because i think you have to change your attitute that people give advice especially because they are more screwed up than you.because i have no problem with my attitude.hope you understood i what i meant to say!
@sharone74 (4837)
• United States
14 Dec 06
That I shouldn't weigh the message with the messenger is something that I do understand. That they have messed up their lives has probably given them some insight into what not to do. Most people how ever do not change their course on the benefit of another's xperience sometime s they have to go through what we all go through.