My grandfather passed away last week? but i did not cry ?

Every body grieves a loss differently...you did it your way they did it theirs...sometimes, weeks can go by and one day you will find yourself in tears...for this loss..don't be ashamed if you do...when my Grandfather passed away, it was about 2 weeks later that it seemed to hit me, I was out side walking and I just started crying, it was like it all came at once...it was a memory and something triggered it...this may happen to you as well, just don't be ashamed if it does as we all grieve at some point for a loss. I am truly sorry for your loss, may God find you strength...

dont feel guilty about it nothing you could do about it. It is not unusual for someone not to cry at someones dealth. Everyone greeves different. Just remember him with all the good things you did together. And you will always miss him.

it means u dont love him

I think it was a bolt from the blue and for sudden shock you did not cry.It can happen to anybody and it is not unusual.

man i am so sorry to here that...well u behaved like a man...i am sure whn ur alone and wana feel it...storng.....ull cry........c his stuff and uno....well May God bless his soul!Amin

We all grieve in our own way. I felt the exact same way as you with my grandfather. I couldn't cry..not because I didn't love him or not becuase he didn't try. I guess he deserved a better tear and I was just not ready. One day you will find the tear for your grandfather's life and all it stood for.

Remember that every person handles grief in their own ways!

what do you want to convey?

Some people could be that way, but they are hurting just like everyone else who's crying. Just because you didn't cry, it doesn't make you any less than the ones who cried. Maybe that's your way of dealing with the loss. I'm sorry for your loss.

how many years old was he..

i'm sorry about your grandfather, i think you a kind of person which cannot easily show isn't it feeling in frontof others.never mind it is common matter. important is you have prayed hopefully your grandfather rest quietly.

Very rude!

don't worry about it. you are in shock and it is normal not to cry. once a day the tears are coming...and they will be helpful for you.

you should have cried ..that would have given a vent to the mental pain of he leaving you.

I think it's normal not to cry when someone passes on 9being a family member or friend), it doesn't mean that you're not sad about it or that you're cold. Some people just handle their emotions differently than others, especially with men, as I don't think they let out their feelings by crying as much or as freely as women do. Just remember that it's OK to cry if you feel the need to, there is no shame in that.

I think that you don't cry because you don't have closed relation ship with your grand father and you have your own activity all day with your friend at your age.

i dont think it hit you as hard as the other family yet. when you relly it you will cry some people dont cry they just feel realy say and they stay by them self. i so sorry to hear about your grandfather he be around you alway in your heart

hmmmm... well said, u r right, infact, we should feel sorry and we do, but when we feel sorry we cry but u didn't cry, its strange

Some people don't cry much.

thats male nature