How would you deal Heartaches?...

Philippines
December 14, 2006 6:17am CST
I know a lot of times in our life we been hurt, by people who either are close to us or far from us.We deal our hurts differently that was caused by either our family, friends,lovers, relatives,colleagues, or anyone who happens to come across our lives.Mostly people deal with their hurts either by facing them or ignoring them... which is more suitable?...need ur opinion...m hurt now...
2 responses
@precy828 (1294)
• Philippines
14 Dec 06
LOVE - you know that it's both painful and great?
you know what?everybody has experienced to be hurt once in their lifetime.no one can escape that.there are only 2 types of hurt physical and emotional.in my experience,i guess i would like to be hurt physically rather than emotionally.when someone slapped your face,it will turn red at the moment then after an hour it will either be gone or still a little reddish and after several hours more,it will be gone and your face will be back to normal.unlike when you were hurt emotionally,for instance,you have loved someone then,you saw him cheating you.of course,you will get very hurt and it won't last for an hour.it will affect you both physically and emotionally and everything else in you and your heart is really painful even if you sleep and wakes up in the morning,you still feel the same pain inside you and it hasn't been gone.i guess the best thing that you could do with that is to pray real hard to GOD and ask him to take the pain in your heart.if the pain still persists,pray harder.you can't ignore the pain.day after day,it will still haunt you.as long as you haven't forgotten everything that had happened,the pain is still there and you have to face it.be stronger than before...do something that you think will strengthen you physically and emotionally.devote your time more to work rather than to think of him.evaluate yourself and tell yourself this,"sorry for him,he lost me."then thank GOD for He has guided you and don't feel hurt anymore because he is not worth your love after all.you deserve somebody better...good luck.i have tried it and i guess it works for me.i hope it will work for you too.i always count my blessings everyday and i always pray to GOD more often because i know that GOD loves me so much for HE gets me out to the situation where i don't deserve the man I am with and i felt better for myself now than before.
• Philippines
16 Dec 06
thnx a lot for ur response...u added sugar on my tea... thnx again.(^-^)
• India
14 Dec 06
Facing is more suitable. Thats what i feel. Ignoring will make you depressed while you are alone & uncomfortable when ur heart breaker is around.